1/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:16:28-08-28 23:16:41 Sun's long essay and Jing's response,<br>2/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:16:30-08-28 23:16:31 Bring a previously ended private relationship back into the ...<br>3/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:16:31-08-28 23:16:41 In Sun's long article,<br>4/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:16:48-08-28 23:16:51 Love,<br>5/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:16:32-08-28 23:16:41 Money,<br>6/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:16:33-08-28 23:16:41 Gambling,<br>7/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:16:35-08-28 23:16:41 Large transfers and disputes over property after a relations...<br>8/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:16:38-08-28 23:16:41 Even called "Mother" by a i cloud, it has everything.<br>9/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:16:40-08-28 23:16:41 Jing Tian's response on Weibo was also short.<br>10/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:16:43-08-28 23:16:51 The core meaning is not to sell out for money.<br>11/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:16:41-08-28 23:16:51 Love and respect the law.<br>12/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:16:42-08-28 23:16:51 Currently,<br>13/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:17:28-08-28 23:17:34 The related civil cases have entered the judicial process.<br>14/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:17:08-08-28 23:17:14 But it hasn't been subject to a formal trial.<br>15/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:16:44-08-28 23:16:51 Let alone a final conclusion.<br>16/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:16:46-08-28 23:16:51 Therefore, at this moment, the reporter judged who was lying...<br>17/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:16:47-08-28 23:16:51 It doesn't really matter.<br>18/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:16:51-08-28 23:17:02 In this short essay,<br>19/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:16:52-08-28 23:17:02 The narrator has a natural advantage.<br>20/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:16:53-08-28 23:17:02 A person has access to a large amount of private information...<br>21/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:17:40-08-28 23:17:43 Re-edit according to your own memory,<br>22/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:16:57-08-28 23:17:02 Add chat records,<br>23/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:16:55-08-28 23:17:02 Screenshot of a transfer,<br>24/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:16:58-08-28 23:17:02 Photo,<br>25/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:16:59-08-28 23:17:02 Photos and timelines,<br>26/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:17:01-08-28 23:17:02 Purely fictional, with a disclaimer at the end.<br>27/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:17:31-08-28 23:17:34 It is easy to construct a logically consistent story,<br>28/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:17:03-08-28 23:17:14 And the other side also cannot, and can produce another vers...<br>29/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:17:05-08-28 23:17:14 After a close relationship ends,<br>30/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:17:02-08-28 23:17:14 Both sides have the most materials in their hands.<br>31/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:17:06-08-28 23:17:14 They often carry the strongest emotions and greatest interes...<br>32/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:17:07-08-28 23:17:14 The court requires evidence,<br>33/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:17:10-08-28 23:17:14 Verification,<br>34/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:17:11-08-28 23:17:14 Following the rules of evidence,<br>35/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:17:14-08-28 23:17:24 Because there are no such programs on Twitter and Weibo.<br>36/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:17:12-08-28 23:17:24 This matter,<br>37/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:17:17-08-28 23:17:24 I was reminded of a question that is more worth pondering th...<br>38/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:17:15-08-28 23:17:24 Why some relationships end after,<br>39/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:17:52-08-28 23:17:54 What remains is regret.<br>40/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:17:18-08-28 23:17:24 And some, however, insist on turning it into a ruin?<br>41/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:17:16-08-28 23:17:24 I remembered a saying,<br>42/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:17:20-08-28 23:17:24 Proverb,<br>43/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:17:21-08-28 23:17:24 Don't date gamblers.<br>44/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:17:25-08-28 23:17:34 What I said about gambling images cannot be directly applied...<br>45/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:17:22-08-28 23:17:34 What I'm concerned about is a behavioral pattern.<br>46/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:17:26-08-28 23:17:34 A person has become accustomed to constantly betting.<br>47/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:17:24-08-28 23:17:34 Increasing investment,<br>48/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:17:27-08-28 23:17:34 Not willing to give up,<br>49/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:17:30-08-28 23:17:43 Obsessed with the vast uncertainty.<br>50/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:17:32-08-28 23:17:34 I am also becoming increasingly unable to accept it.<br>51/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:17:34-08-28 23:17:43 Some things are gone forever.<br>52/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:17:37-08-28 23:17:43 When this logic intrudes into intimate relationships,<br>53/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:17:36-08-28 23:17:43 Excuse me,<br>54/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:19:08-08-28 23:19:09 It is often more serious than losing a large sum of money.<br>55/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:17:39-08-28 23:17:43 Gamblers are most concerned about fate.<br>56/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:18:19-08-28 23:18:25 The thrill of a sudden turnaround.<br>57/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:17:42-08-28 23:17:54 In 1967, the sociologist Erving Goffman wrote a very interes...<br>58/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:17:41-08-28 23:17:43 Where is the operation?<br>59/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:19:18-08-28 23:19:30 He proposed a concept about gambling addiction and various h...<br>60/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:17:43-08-28 23:17:54 Called fate action.<br>61/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:17:45-08-28 23:17:54 Fake for action.<br>62/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:25:58-08-28 23:26:01 He said,<br>63/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:17:46-08-28 23:17:54 Most of the time in life is now quite mundane work.<br>64/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:18:20-08-28 23:18:25 Saving for debt repayment,<br>65/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:17:47-08-28 23:17:54 Insurance,<br>66/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:17:49-08-28 23:17:54 Take care of the family,<br>67/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:17:53-08-28 23:18:05 Adults are experienced in dealing with uncertainty,<br>68/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:17:50-08-28 23:17:54 However, casinos offer the opposite experience.<br>69/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:17:51-08-28 23:17:54 In a matter of minutes,<br>70/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:17:55-08-28 23:18:05 Your whole life could turn around.<br>71/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:17:57-08-28 23:18:05 Confirmed wealth increase,<br>72/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:18:00-08-28 23:18:05 I sometimes even have the illusion that I am different from ...<br>73/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:17:59-08-28 23:18:05 Even if you lose, it doesn't necessarily mean that you will ...<br>74/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:18:51-08-28 23:18:59 Because the next one is still there.<br>75/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:18:01-08-28 23:18:05 This is also one of the most dangerous temptations in gambli...<br>76/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:18:02-08-28 23:18:05 He is not just selling the fantasy of wealth,<br>77/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:18:04-08-28 23:18:15 It also adds a dramatic element.<br>78/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:18:06-08-28 23:18:15 With this personality,<br>79/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:18:05-08-28 23:18:15 Entering love,<br>80/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:18:07-08-28 23:18:15 Sometimes it's even quite charming.<br>81/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:18:09-08-28 23:18:15 Dare to spend money,<br>82/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:18:10-08-28 23:18:15 Dare to make promises that others are afraid to.<br>83/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:18:12-08-28 23:18:15 One meal,<br>84/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:18:11-08-28 23:18:15 A gift,<br>85/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:18:14-08-28 23:18:25 A trip can quickly elevate a relationship.<br>86/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:18:15-08-28 23:18:25 Two people who just met,<br>87/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:18:16-08-28 23:18:25 The relationship has already reached a speed that is like a ...<br>88/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:18:25-08-28 23:18:37 Love itself can temporarily amplify a person's tendency to t...<br>89/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:18:17-08-28 23:18:25 The problem lies in,<br>90/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:18:23-08-28 23:18:37 What a long-term relationship needs is another set of skills...<br>91/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:18:21-08-28 23:18:25 Stable,<br>92/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:18:24-08-28 23:18:25 Control,<br>93/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:18:46-08-28 23:18:49 Expected,<br>94/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:18:26-08-28 23:18:37 And respect for the boundaries.<br>95/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:19:33-08-28 23:19:40 It's easy to see how one person can win,<br>96/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:18:28-08-28 23:18:37 But it's more interesting to watch someone lose.<br>97/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:18:29-08-28 23:18:37 The most terrible habit is to destroy.<br>98/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:18:34-08-28 23:18:48 In gambling research, there is a very important concept call...<br>99/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:18:30-08-28 23:18:37 A person who has already lost 100,000 yuan.<br>100/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:26:45-08-28 23:26:54 Imagine approaching the next $10,000 as if you've never been...<br>101/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:18:32-08-28 23:18:37 Because of this question,<br>102/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:18:35-08-28 23:18:37 Suddenly, I was assigned a task.<br>103/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:18:37-08-28 23:18:49 Get back the ten thousand I lost.<br>104/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:18:38-08-28 23:18:49 Therefore, I lost the bet.<br>105/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:18:40-08-28 23:18:49 Keep adding,<br>106/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:18:42-08-28 23:18:49 Silent costs are increasing,<br>107/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:18:43-08-28 23:18:49 It's getting harder and harder to leave.<br>108/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:18:45-08-28 23:18:49 Finally,<br>109/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:18:47-08-28 23:18:59 A gambler couldn't even answer a simple question.<br>110/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:18:53-08-28 23:18:59 I'm just trying to make money.<br>111/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:18:48-08-28 23:18:59 Am I just trying to prove myself?<br>112/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:18:50-08-28 23:18:59 There is no mistake.<br>113/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:18:54-08-28 23:18:59 Similar structures also appear in intimate relationships.<br>114/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:19:46-08-28 23:19:52 I've spent so much money for you,<br>115/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:18:55-08-28 23:18:59 I've been with you for so many years,<br>116/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:18:56-08-28 23:18:59 I have changed so much for you,<br>117/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:18:58-08-28 23:19:09 I've helped you with so many problems,<br>118/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:19:12-08-28 23:19:19 This might be true.<br>119/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:18:59-08-28 23:19:09 The problem lies in the second half of the sentence.<br>120/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:19:00-08-28 23:19:09 Therefore, you cannot leave me.<br>121/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:19:01-08-28 23:19:09 This is a small step,<br>122/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:19:03-08-28 23:19:09 However, it completely changed the nature of the relationshi...<br>123/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:19:04-08-28 23:19:19 The act of giving begins to create a sense of obligation, wh...<br>124/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:19:05-08-28 23:19:19 Past applications have been re-evaluated.<br>125/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:19:06-08-28 23:19:09 The transaction records also have new meanings.<br>126/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:19:09-08-28 23:19:19 Those things that no one thought needed to be calculated,<br>127/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:19:11-08-28 23:19:19 After breaking up,<br>128/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:19:13-08-28 23:19:19 Suddenly, the entries started appearing in the ledger.<br>129/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:19:19-08-28 23:19:40 The article by Sun Yecheng caused a lot of discussion becaus...<br>130/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:19:15-08-28 23:19:19 It's also related to this structure.<br>131/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:19:16-08-28 23:19:19 Huge money,<br>132/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:19:28-08-28 23:19:30 Romantic relationship,<br>133/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:19:20-08-28 23:19:30 Gambling narrative,<br>134/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:19:22-08-28 23:19:30 And later property disputes,<br>135/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:19:24-08-28 23:19:30 It's easy to make the public feel a sense of urgency,<br>136/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:19:23-08-28 23:19:30 Reinterpret each transaction,<br>137/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:20:24-08-28 23:20:34 Finally, determine who owes whom.<br>138/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:19:25-08-28 23:19:30 The most troublesome thing about intimate relationships is t...<br>139/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:19:27-08-28 23:19:30 Many things are happening,<br>140/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:19:30-08-28 23:19:40 There is no price tag for the cost of a single visit.<br>141/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:19:31-08-28 23:19:40 How much does it cost to change someone's life plan?<br>142/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:19:32-08-28 23:19:40 How to distinguish between gifts and loans in love?<br>143/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:19:36-08-28 23:19:40 Initially, I willingly put in the effort.<br>144/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:19:35-08-28 23:19:40 After the relationship broke down,<br>145/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:19:38-08-28 23:19:40 Can I re-price according to today's mood?<br>146/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:20:48-08-28 23:20:57 The legal aspects should, of course, be handled by the court...<br>147/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:19:40-08-28 23:19:52 The remaining challenge is how a person understands the thin...<br>148/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:19:39-08-28 23:19:40 Love once turned into an account book,<br>149/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:20:20-08-28 23:20:24 Both will become poor.<br>150/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:19:44-08-28 23:19:52 In Freud's Beyond the Pleasure Principle,<br>151/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:19:42-08-28 23:19:52 We have discussed the concept of repetition compulsion.<br>152/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:19:43-08-28 23:19:52 compulsion to repeat,<br>153/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:19:47-08-28 23:19:52 People are not always proactive in avoiding pain.<br>154/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:19:48-08-28 23:20:03 Sometimes, it can lead to repeatedly falling back into the s...<br>155/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:19:50-08-28 23:19:52 I hope that next time there will be a different ending.<br>156/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:19:52-08-28 23:20:03 Gamblers are very familiar with this feeling.<br>157/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:19:51-08-28 23:19:52 Another one, another one.<br>158/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:20:10-08-28 23:20:14 Finally,<br>159/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:19:54-08-28 23:20:03 Rewrite the previous story,<br>160/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:19:55-08-28 23:20:03 Nostalgia can also lead to similar obsessions.<br>161/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:19:57-08-28 23:20:03 Let me explain again,<br>162/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:19:58-08-28 23:20:03 Once again,<br>163/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:20:01-08-28 23:20:03 Here's another article.<br>164/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:19:59-08-28 23:20:03 Here's another chat log,<br>165/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:20:02-08-28 23:20:14 Even if the other person doesn't turn back,<br>166/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:20:04-08-28 23:20:14 At least make the onlookers think I'm not wrong.<br>167/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:20:03-08-28 23:20:14 At this point,<br>168/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:20:11-08-28 23:20:14 It's hard to say whether it's still love when people are com...<br>169/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:20:06-08-28 23:20:14 They are vying for something more abstract,<br>170/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:20:07-08-28 23:20:14 Who is qualified to define this relationship?<br>171/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:20:12-08-28 23:20:24 This is also a place where we need to be vigilant about vert...<br>172/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:20:08-08-28 23:20:14 A relationship that lasted for several years,<br>173/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:20:14-08-28 23:20:34 Contains several thousand hours of life,<br>174/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:20:18-08-28 23:20:24 And an article of several thousand words can be rewritten wi...<br>175/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:20:19-08-28 23:20:24 What details to keep,<br>176/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:20:16-08-28 23:20:24 Which reviews,<br>177/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:20:22-08-28 23:20:24 Who hurt whom first.<br>178/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:21:13-08-28 23:21:17 Later, I retaliated with a small amount of money.<br>179/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:20:31-08-28 23:20:34 Is a gift,<br>180/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:20:23-08-28 23:20:32 Loan,<br>181/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:20:26-08-28 23:20:34 Compensation,<br>182/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:20:27-08-28 23:20:34 Change the order of investment narrative slightly,<br>183/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:20:28-08-28 23:20:34 The character's image can be completely different.<br>184/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:21:07-08-28 23:21:19 When Goffman studied self-presentation,<br>185/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:20:30-08-28 23:20:34 I have already discovered,<br>186/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:21:15-08-28 23:21:17 Once a person enters public places,<br>187/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:20:32-08-28 23:20:35 They proactively manage how others perceive them.<br>188/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:20:34-08-28 23:20:46 After a breakup, the public narrative is also difficult to e...<br>189/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:20:38-08-28 23:20:46 Therefore, when facing Sun Yichen's article,<br>190/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:20:35-08-28 23:20:46 A sweet reply,<br>191/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:21:27-08-28 23:21:31 I'd rather just stop here.<br>192/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:20:36-08-28 23:20:46 Can be read,<br>193/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:20:39-08-28 23:20:46 Can be analyzed,<br>194/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:20:40-08-28 23:20:46 It is also possible to suspect that before the judiciary has...<br>195/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:20:41-08-28 23:20:46 It's not necessary to rush into judgment for either side.<br>196/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:20:43-08-28 23:20:46 Don't mistake saving a grown-up for love.<br>197/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:20:44-08-28 23:20:57 In recent years,<br>198/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:20:47-08-28 23:20:57 The study of gambling has increasingly focused on the concep...<br>199/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:20:46-08-28 23:20:57 The reason is simple,<br>200/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:20:50-08-28 23:20:57 A person's gambling problem is rare.<br>201/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:20:52-08-28 23:20:57 Stay only in the casino.<br>202/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:20:51-08-28 23:20:57 Debt will come home.<br>203/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:20:54-08-28 23:20:57 Lies will bring you home.<br>204/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:21:45-08-28 23:21:49 Emotions can be brought home,<br>205/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:20:56-08-28 23:21:06 To cover the hole,<br>206/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:20:59-08-28 23:21:07 And the new risks will also be brought home.<br>207/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:20:58-08-28 23:21:07 Some studies have divided gambling harm into several dimensi...<br>208/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:21:00-08-28 23:21:07 One of the important parts is relational harm,<br>209/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:21:02-08-28 23:21:07 Trust is broken.<br>210/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:21:03-08-28 23:21:16 Long-term conflict, role misplacement.<br>211/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:28:46-08-28 23:28:51 The relationship finally broke down.<br>212/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:21:08-08-28 23:21:17 In real life, there is a type of relationship that can be pa...<br>213/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:21:04-08-28 23:21:07 One person became the administrator of another.<br>214/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:21:09-08-28 23:21:17 Check bank account, inquire about credit card, and ask where...<br>215/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:21:06-08-28 23:21:08 Prevent borrowing,<br>216/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:21:11-08-28 23:21:17 Ask if you are betting.<br>217/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:21:12-08-28 23:21:17 At the beginning,<br>218/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:21:58-08-28 23:22:01 These actions may be entirely out of love.<br>219/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:21:16-08-28 23:21:27 Slowly, the lover became a guardian.<br>220/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:21:17-08-28 23:21:27 The equal, mutual gaze between two people disappears.<br>221/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:21:19-08-28 23:21:28 I always felt that there was a very simple and basic line in...<br>222/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:21:20-08-28 23:21:28 Don't live with someone who needs you to manage their bounda...<br>223/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:21:59-08-28 23:22:09 Gambling is just one of them.<br>224/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:21:53-08-28 23:21:59 Repeatedly lying,<br>225/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:21:21-08-28 23:21:28 Uncontrolled consumption,<br>226/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:21:23-08-28 23:21:28 Violence addiction is constantly breaking through.<br>227/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:21:24-08-28 23:21:28 Both of the agreed-upon boundaries have similar problems.<br>228/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:21:25-08-28 23:21:28 Adults can certainly make mistakes.<br>229/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:21:28-08-28 23:21:41 Can also be in a difficult situation at some point in life,<br>230/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:21:29-08-28 23:21:39 A partner can provide companionship and support.<br>231/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:21:31-08-28 23:21:40 Even together, we endured several difficult years.<br>232/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:21:32-08-28 23:21:40 But an adult ultimately has to be responsible for their own ...<br>233/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:22:03-08-28 23:22:09 Otherwise, what is called love easily turns into a person co...<br>234/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:21:34-08-28 23:21:40 Another person keeps picking up the pieces.<br>235/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:21:35-08-28 23:21:40 Eventually,<br>236/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:21:36-08-28 23:21:40 Love has been consumed by management.<br>237/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:21:37-08-28 23:21:40 Money can be shared.<br>238/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:21:39-08-28 23:21:49 But people cannot be owned.<br>239/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:21:41-08-28 23:21:49 One of the most common misunderstandings in close relationsh...<br>240/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:21:43-08-28 23:21:49 It's about gradually understanding that what you put in is a...<br>241/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:21:40-08-28 23:21:48 I spent so much money on you,<br>242/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:21:46-08-28 23:21:49 I gave you the best years of my life, I offended others for ...<br>243/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:21:44-08-28 23:21:49 I even changed my life.<br>244/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:21:47-08-28 23:21:51 These sacrifices certainly have their weight.<br>245/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:21:49-08-28 23:21:59 But there is still one fact that makes people feel uncomfort...<br>246/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:21:48-08-28 23:21:58 The other party can still leave.<br>247/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:22:23-08-28 23:22:31 This is the most cruel love,<br>248/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:21:51-08-28 23:21:59 This is also a basic condition.<br>249/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:21:54-08-28 23:21:59 If someone accepts your gift,<br>250/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:21:52-08-28 23:21:59 Lost the right to leave.<br>251/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:21:56-08-28 23:21:59 That gift will eventually turn into a contract.<br>252/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:22:01-08-28 23:22:09 If someone has loved you for a long time,<br>253/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:21:57-08-28 23:22:09 I must continue to love you.<br>254/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:22:04-08-28 23:22:09 Then the love lost its most essential element: volition.<br>255/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:23:13-08-28 23:23:25 Therefore, to determine whether someone is suitable for long...<br>256/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:22:06-08-28 23:22:09 I think it's worth observing a less discussed indicator,<br>257/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:22:02-08-28 23:22:09 He doesn't allow others to refuse.<br>258/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:22:07-08-28 23:22:09 What should I do after being rejected in love?<br>259/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:22:46-08-28 23:22:54 What to do after an opinion is rejected?<br>260/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:22:50-08-28 23:22:54 What to do after an investment failure?<br>261/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:29:46-08-28 23:29:56 What to do after a breakup?<br>262/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:22:08-08-28 23:22:20 Many people are very easy to get along with in the transient...<br>263/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:22:09-08-28 23:22:20 Resources are abundant,<br>264/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:22:32-08-28 23:22:42 Emotional stability,<br>265/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:22:11-08-28 23:22:20 When you are successful in your career,<br>266/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:22:12-08-28 23:22:20 Generosity is not difficult.<br>267/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:22:13-08-28 23:22:20 After losing,<br>268/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:22:16-08-28 23:22:20 A person's boundaries will only become clear over time.<br>269/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:22:17-08-28 23:22:20 Unpaid debts remain after the breakup.<br>270/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:22:18-08-28 23:22:20 In intimate relationships, there is a very special property.<br>271/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:22:20-08-28 23:22:31 He has no price.<br>272/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:22:21-08-28 23:22:31 The other person's body,<br>273/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:22:22-08-28 23:22:31 Family secrets,<br>274/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:22:25-08-28 23:22:31 Childhood experiences with illness.<br>275/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:22:26-08-28 23:22:31 Two people talked behind closed doors.<br>276/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:22:27-08-28 23:22:31 Photos and information left behind during the most difficult...<br>277/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:22:28-08-28 23:22:31 These things have entered your life,<br>278/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:23:03-08-28 23:23:13 Because there was trust at that time.<br>279/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:22:30-08-28 23:22:31 After the relationship ends,<br>280/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:22:31-08-28 23:22:42 The law will certainly deal with property,<br>281/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:22:33-08-28 23:22:42 Debt and potential illegal activities.<br>282/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:22:35-08-28 23:22:42 There is a large amount of content that falls outside the sc...<br>283/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:22:37-08-28 23:22:42 Someone once entrusted you with their most vulnerable side,<br>284/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:22:36-08-28 23:22:42 Eventually, you two stopped loving each other.<br>285/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:22:39-08-28 23:22:42 How do you deal with these things?<br>286/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:23:21-08-28 23:23:25 I think this is the final test of love.<br>287/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:22:42-08-28 23:22:54 Today, the internet is particularly prone to weaponizing pri...<br>288/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:22:40-08-28 23:22:42 A screenshot of a chat,<br>289/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:22:41-08-28 23:22:42 A recording and a photo,<br>290/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:22:45-08-28 23:22:54 As long as you throw into the public playground,<br>291/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:22:47-08-28 23:22:54 This can make it difficult for others to recover from their ...<br>292/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:22:44-08-28 23:22:54 Of course,<br>293/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:22:49-08-28 23:22:54 Some public actions have legitimacy,<br>294/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:22:51-08-28 23:23:03 For example, involving illegal acts that harm the public int...<br>295/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:22:53-08-28 23:23:03 Or to protect potential victims.<br>296/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:22:54-08-28 23:23:03 However, the threshold for retaliatory exposure in private r...<br>297/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:23:37-08-28 23:23:45 Otherwise, love will lead to a terrible outcome.<br>298/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:22:55-08-28 23:23:03 The deeper you love,<br>299/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:23:33-08-28 23:23:45 The more hostages there are,<br>300/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:22:56-08-28 23:23:03 If every relationship ends,<br>301/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:22:58-08-28 23:23:03 Both parties can bring up past vulnerabilities to settle the...<br>302/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:22:59-08-28 23:23:03 The only thing people can learn is how to live with each oth...<br>303/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:23:00-08-28 23:23:03 Don't trust the jade that is about to be burned.<br>304/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:23:02-08-28 23:23:13 It's the gambler's last resort.<br>305/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:23:04-08-28 23:23:13 So don't date gamblers.<br>306/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:23:05-08-28 23:23:13 It's not just effective in casinos.<br>307/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:23:07-08-28 23:23:13 I am focusing on one of the most common ways of thinking abo...<br>308/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:23:08-08-28 23:23:13 I've already invested so much,<br>309/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:23:41-08-28 23:23:45 Can't stop,<br>310/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:30:50-08-28 23:31:00 I've already lost here,<br>311/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:23:09-08-28 23:23:13 Can't hear.<br>312/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:23:10-08-28 23:23:13 Since I can't get it,<br>313/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:23:12-08-28 23:23:13 You,<br>314/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:23:17-08-28 23:23:25 Don't think you can get away with it.<br>315/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:23:14-08-28 23:23:25 The most difficult thing to achieve in gambling is admitting...<br>316/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:23:16-08-28 23:23:25 Ordinary people lose, slowly recover losses.<br>317/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:23:18-08-28 23:23:25 Gamblers will find ways to turn losses into reasons for thei...<br>318/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:24:10-08-28 23:24:15 This set of logic enters into emotions.<br>319/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:23:22-08-28 23:23:35 The ending is likely to be very disappointing.<br>320/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:23:23-08-28 23:23:25 I can't win.<br>321/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:23:25-08-28 23:23:35 At least it can help you to lose money while chasing,<br>322/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:23:26-08-28 23:23:35 Don't come back.<br>323/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:24:14-08-28 23:24:15 We can't restore the relationship of moral evaluation,<br>324/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:23:27-08-28 23:23:35 To win public support.<br>325/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:23:28-08-28 23:23:35 The knowledge in public is not enough.<br>326/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:23:29-08-28 23:23:35 Continue with the following documents,<br>327/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:23:35-08-28 23:23:45 Layer upon layer, the two people who once shared a life toge...<br>328/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:23:31-08-28 23:23:35 Everything has become a weapon.<br>329/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:23:32-08-28 23:23:35 Prone to rash decisions,<br>330/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:23:36-08-28 23:23:45 Actually, it's not as glorious as you might think.<br>331/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:23:38-08-28 23:23:45 Many times, he would just say that he couldn't bring himself...<br>332/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:23:43-08-28 23:23:55 It's best to find someone you can afford to lose in a relati...<br>333/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:24:45-08-28 23:24:48 If there's one thing to take away from this debate,<br>334/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:23:42-08-28 23:23:45 I don't really care.<br>335/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:23:40-08-28 23:23:45 Finally,<br>336/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:23:45-08-28 23:23:55 Which side is the trending topic on,<br>337/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:23:46-08-28 23:23:55 The legal proceedings will continue.<br>338/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:24:19-08-28 23:24:26 Evidence will gradually emerge.<br>339/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:23:48-08-28 23:23:55 The legal responsibility will be handled according to the la...<br>340/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:24:02-08-28 23:24:06 For ordinary people,<br>341/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:23:47-08-28 23:23:55 More questions worth bringing back to your life,<br>342/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:23:51-08-28 23:23:55 Can the person you are dating afford to lose?<br>343/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:23:50-08-28 23:23:55 After he made a mistake,<br>344/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:23:52-08-28 23:23:55 Can you admit that after a failed investment, can you stop l...<br>345/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:23:53-08-28 23:23:55 When you reject him,<br>346/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:23:55-08-28 23:24:06 Can he catch up with the argument?<br>347/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:23:56-08-28 23:24:06 Could he be deliberately attacking your weakest points?<br>348/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:23:57-08-28 23:24:06 After the relationship ends,<br>349/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:23:59-08-28 23:24:06 Will he still protect you?<br>350/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:24:01-08-28 23:24:06 The secrets that were once entrusted to him?<br>351/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:24:05-08-28 23:24:15 These things don't sound romantic at all.<br>352/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:24:06-08-28 23:24:15 No flowers,<br>353/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:24:04-08-28 23:24:15 Luxury cars,<br>354/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:24:08-08-28 23:24:15 Engagement ring,<br>355/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:24:09-08-28 23:24:15 No grand promises,<br>356/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:25:14-08-28 23:25:19 But long-term relationships are ultimately based on these se...<br>357/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:24:11-08-28 23:24:15 Life will inevitably encounter bad people.<br>358/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:24:13-08-28 23:24:15 Career may fail,<br>359/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:24:15-08-28 23:24:26 Investment may be lost.<br>360/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:24:16-08-28 23:24:26 Parents will age.<br>361/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:24:58-08-28 23:25:08 The body can get sick,<br>362/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:24:17-08-28 23:24:26 Emotions can also change.<br>363/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:24:23-08-28 23:24:36 Of course, you would want your friends to share in the victo...<br>364/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:32:01-08-28 23:32:13 More importantly,<br>365/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:24:20-08-28 23:24:26 But when the bad cards really appear,<br>366/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:24:35-08-28 23:24:36 He won't overturn the table.<br>367/378 <font color=red>hp</font> 08-28 23:24:24-08-28 23:24:26 Love allows for a failed life.<br>368/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:24:21-08-28 23:24:26 Also allow for mistakes.<br>369/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:24:43-08-28 23:24:48 A person,<br>370/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:24:25-08-28 23:24:26 We can lose money,<br>371/378 <font color=red>lx</font> 08-28 23:24:26-08-28 23:24:36 Ending a relationship,<br>372/378 <font color=red>n</font> 08-28 23:24:31-08-28 23:24:36 Even losing the future that you once believed in.<br>373/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:24:29-08-28 23:24:36 But some things are best left as leverage.<br>374/378 <font color=red>bg</font> 08-28 23:24:27-08-28 23:24:36 The dignity of others,<br>375/378 <font color=red></font> 08-28 23:24:30-08-28 23:24:36 Each other's secrets,<br>376/378 <font color=red>de</font> 08-28 23:24:34-08-28 23:24:36 Freedom to exit a relationship,<br>377/378 <font color=red>aaa</font> 08-28 23:24:33-08-28 23:24:36 And after an adult loses,<br>378/378 <font color=red>xss</font> 08-28 23:24:36-08-28 23:24:48 Still able to walk down alone, in a dignified manner.<br>