1/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:45:45-09-07 20:45:50 Recently,<br>2/135 <font color=red>n</font> 09-07 20:45:46-09-07 20:45:50 Two things happened in the entertainment industry.<br>3/135 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-07 20:45:47-09-07 20:45:50 One thing leads to another, and then there's an affair.<br>4/135 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-07 20:45:49-09-07 20:45:50 Sun Ge, a former member of the closed circle, sues someone n...<br>5/135 <font color=red>de</font> 09-07 20:45:49-09-07 20:45:58 Refund three million yuan of dowry,<br>6/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:45:50-09-07 20:45:58 I also wrote a long article of ten thousand words.<br>7/135 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-07 20:45:51-09-07 20:45:58 My friend, Jing Tian, is ahead.<br>8/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:45:52-09-07 20:45:58 It's worth noting,<br>9/135 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-07 20:45:52-09-07 20:45:58 Only she cares.<br>10/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:45:55-09-07 20:45:58 If it weren't for the fact that a certain farmer's melons we...<br>11/135 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-07 20:45:55-09-07 20:45:58 Infidelity,<br>12/135 <font color=red>n</font> 09-07 20:45:56-09-07 20:45:58 These things are no longer new in modern society.<br>13/135 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-07 20:45:57-09-07 20:46:06 There's nothing to talk about.<br>14/135 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-07 20:45:59-09-07 20:46:06 Regarding how low Sun's character is,<br>15/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:46:00-09-07 20:46:09 The information on the internet is very comprehensive.<br>16/135 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-07 20:46:02-09-07 20:46:06 Nothing to say.<br>17/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:46:03-09-07 20:46:11 However, today I want to talk about the two protagonists of ...<br>18/135 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-07 20:46:03-09-07 20:46:06 But they all have one thing in common,<br>19/135 <font color=red>de</font> 09-07 20:46:04-09-07 20:46:11 That's the loss of subjectivity as a person.<br>20/135 <font color=red>n</font> 09-07 20:46:05-09-07 20:46:06 The tragedy of someone named Ao lies in his self-sacrificing...<br>21/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:46:06-09-07 20:46:16 His entire sense of self-worth came from being married to Ba...<br>22/135 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-07 20:46:06-09-07 20:46:12 His goal in life is to maintain this marriage.<br>23/135 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-07 20:46:07-09-07 20:46:11 Therefore, he was indecisive.<br>24/135 <font color=red>n</font> 09-07 20:46:08-09-07 20:46:11 The grass is frozen,<br>25/135 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-07 20:46:09-09-07 20:46:12 He doesn't love this man.<br>26/135 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-07 20:46:09-09-07 20:46:21 The state of being loved by this man.<br>27/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:46:12-09-07 20:46:16 Once this state is compromised,<br>28/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:46:12-09-07 20:46:16 His entire life has collapsed.<br>29/135 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-07 20:46:13-09-07 20:46:16 The one who cheated is Bao.<br>30/135 <font color=red>n</font> 09-07 20:46:14-09-07 20:46:16 But the dynasty of fists is under Bao.<br>31/135 <font color=red>de</font> 09-07 20:46:15-09-07 20:46:21 Laugh at his shy smile, laugh at his love.<br>32/135 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-07 20:46:15-09-07 20:46:21 He always teased him for cramming his entire 20-year life in...<br>33/135 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-07 20:46:16-09-07 20:46:21 This admission, though sarcastic.<br>34/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:46:17-09-07 20:46:21 But it is a fact.<br>35/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:46:19-09-07 20:46:21 If a person doesn't value themselves,<br>36/135 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-07 20:46:20-09-07 20:46:21 No one will ever take you seriously.<br>37/135 <font color=red>n</font> 09-07 20:46:20-09-07 20:46:21 The difficulty of the field lies in the survival of the para...<br>38/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:46:21-09-07 20:46:28 His resources are exposed.<br>39/135 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-07 20:46:22-09-07 20:46:28 Existence is entirely derived from clothing.<br>40/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:46:23-09-07 20:46:28 Stronger people say,<br>41/135 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-07 20:46:23-09-07 20:46:28 In layman's terms, I managed to get one.<br>42/135 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-07 20:46:24-09-07 20:46:28 He has both beauty and some acting skills.<br>43/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:46:25-09-07 20:46:28 However, it formed a direct dependency.<br>44/135 <font color=red>de</font> 09-07 20:46:26-09-07 20:46:35 Used to being given, used to exchanging for survival resourc...<br>45/135 <font color=red>n</font> 09-07 20:46:26-09-07 20:46:29 He capitalized on his beauty and youth.<br>46/135 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-07 20:46:28-09-07 20:46:41 Then, he repeatedly suppressed the losses,<br>47/135 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-07 20:46:29-09-07 20:46:35 He said he was unlucky.<br>48/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:46:30-09-07 20:46:35 But essentially, he always put himself in a position to be c...<br>49/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:46:31-09-07 20:46:35 Never actively chose my own life.<br>50/135 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-07 20:46:33-09-07 20:46:35 What is agency?<br>51/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:46:34-09-07 20:46:41 For example,<br>52/135 <font color=red>n</font> 09-07 20:46:34-09-07 20:46:35 In front of you is a table,<br>53/135 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-07 20:46:35-09-07 20:46:41 There is a cup of water on the table.<br>54/135 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-07 20:46:36-09-07 20:46:41 You can choose to drink it or throw it away.<br>55/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:46:37-09-07 20:46:41 It was thrown out,<br>56/135 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-07 20:46:39-09-07 20:46:41 Or just leave it there.<br>57/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:46:40-09-07 20:46:41 No matter what choices you have,<br>58/135 <font color=red>n</font> 09-07 20:46:41-09-07 20:46:41 The fate of this glass of water is in your hands.<br>59/135 <font color=red>de</font> 09-07 20:46:41-09-07 20:46:49 This is called subjectivity.<br>60/135 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-07 20:46:42-09-07 20:46:49 But if there is a person standing in front of you,<br>61/135 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-07 20:46:43-09-07 20:46:49 He told you that this glass of cement can only be drunk,<br>62/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:46:44-09-07 20:46:49 Can't do anything else.<br>63/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:46:44-09-07 20:46:49 And you thought about it,<br>64/135 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-07 20:46:45-09-07 20:46:49 Okay,<br>65/135 <font color=red>n</font> 09-07 20:46:46-09-07 20:46:49 I understand.<br>66/135 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-07 20:46:47-09-07 20:46:55 At this moment,<br>67/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:46:47-09-07 20:46:55 You have relinquished your right to this glass of water.<br>68/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:46:50-09-07 20:46:55 Loss of subjectivity,<br>69/135 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-07 20:46:50-09-07 20:46:55 It's not that you can't listen to other people's advice,<br>70/135 <font color=red>de</font> 09-07 20:46:51-09-07 20:46:55 It's not that you can't rely on others,<br>71/135 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-07 20:46:52-09-07 20:46:55 Instead, it means that the final decision-making power regar...<br>72/135 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-07 20:46:53-09-07 20:46:59 You have no control over your life's direction.<br>73/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:46:53-09-07 20:46:59 Package A represents two typical states of the subject's ent...<br>74/135 <font color=red>n</font> 09-07 20:46:55-09-07 20:46:59 One is a preemptive binding.<br>75/135 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-07 20:46:56-09-07 20:46:59 One is a parasitic, plant-attached organism.<br>76/135 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-07 20:46:57-09-07 20:46:59 None of them considered themselves to be the first person re...<br>77/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:46:58-09-07 20:47:05 Why do so many people lose their sense of self?<br>78/135 <font color=red>de</font> 09-07 20:46:58-09-07 20:47:05 Cannot be simply attributed,<br>79/135 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-07 20:46:59-09-07 20:47:05 Not strong enough.<br>80/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:47:00-09-07 20:47:05 Agency is not innate.<br>81/135 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-07 20:47:01-09-07 20:47:05 It needs to be allowed.<br>82/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:47:02-09-07 20:47:05 He needs you to be told from a young age that you belong to ...<br>83/135 <font color=red>n</font> 09-07 20:47:02-09-07 20:47:05 It is wrong to have the opportunity to make mistakes.<br>84/135 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-07 20:47:04-09-07 20:47:05 Make your own decisions,<br>85/135 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-07 20:47:05-09-07 20:47:11 Take responsibility for the consequences.<br>86/135 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-07 20:47:06-09-07 20:47:11 However, many people were educated with the opposite idea fr...<br>87/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:47:07-09-07 20:47:11 You should be good,<br>88/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:47:07-09-07 20:47:11 Obey,<br>89/135 <font color=red>n</font> 09-07 20:47:08-09-07 20:47:11 To be liked by others,<br>90/135 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-07 20:47:09-09-07 20:47:11 To be loved and packaged as the highest reward, independence...<br>91/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:47:10-09-07 20:47:17 Instead, it was implied to be a misfortune.<br>92/135 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-07 20:47:10-09-07 20:47:17 What is awakening?<br>93/135 <font color=red>de</font> 09-07 20:47:11-09-07 20:47:17 Many people think that awakening is leaving a bad boyfriend,<br>94/135 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-07 20:47:12-09-07 20:47:17 To do business,<br>95/135 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-07 20:47:13-09-07 20:47:17 Economic independence is wrong.<br>96/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:47:14-09-07 20:47:17 These are just the results.<br>97/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:47:14-09-07 20:47:17 Not essential.<br>98/135 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-07 20:47:17-09-07 20:47:17 The essence of awakening is to reclaim your ultimate control...<br>99/135 <font color=red>n</font> 09-07 20:47:17-09-07 20:47:24 The awakening of Bao Mou.<br>100/135 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-07 20:47:18-09-07 20:47:26 It's not a divorce.<br>101/135 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-07 20:47:19-09-07 20:47:26 Not a private package.<br>102/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:47:19-09-07 20:47:26 One day, he could look in the mirror and say,<br>103/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:47:22-09-07 20:47:26 Leave him,<br>104/135 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-07 20:47:22-09-07 20:47:26 I am still whole.<br>105/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:47:23-09-07 20:47:31 I don't live to be loved by him.<br>106/135 <font color=red>de</font> 09-07 20:47:24-09-07 20:47:27 I live because I want to.<br>107/135 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-07 20:47:25-09-07 20:47:35 A farmer's awakening,<br>108/135 <font color=red>n</font> 09-07 20:47:27-09-07 20:47:31 Not to find a more reliable boss next time,<br>109/135 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-07 20:47:28-09-07 20:47:31 Instead, he could one day tell himself,<br>110/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:47:28-09-07 20:47:35 I don't need anyone to support me in order to prove my worth...<br>111/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:47:29-09-07 20:47:31 I am standing here,<br>112/135 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-07 20:47:30-09-07 20:47:31 I'm fine on my own.<br>113/135 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-07 20:47:31-09-07 20:47:31 True awakening is when you no longer identify with being lov...<br>114/135 <font color=red>de</font> 09-07 20:47:31-09-07 20:47:36 Selected,<br>115/135 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-07 20:47:32-09-07 20:47:38 Being supported is a goal in your life.<br>116/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:47:33-09-07 20:47:37 You are moving yourself from the object position to the subj...<br>117/135 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-07 20:47:34-09-07 20:47:36 You are not someone's donkey.<br>118/135 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-07 20:47:34-09-07 20:47:36 Whose wife,<br>119/135 <font color=red>n</font> 09-07 20:47:35-09-07 20:47:38 Whose accessories?<br>120/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:47:36-09-07 20:47:45 You are the author of your own life.<br>121/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:47:37-09-07 20:47:45 Finally, I'd like to share something.<br>122/135 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-07 20:47:37-09-07 20:47:51 Five things I tell my female friends,<br>123/135 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-07 20:47:38-09-07 20:47:45 Eighty percent of people are fools.<br>124/135 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-07 20:47:39-09-07 20:47:45 II.<br>125/135 <font color=red>de</font> 09-07 20:47:40-09-07 20:47:45 To anyone,<br>126/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:47:42-09-07 20:47:45 Any is a charm,<br>127/135 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-07 20:47:43-09-07 20:47:52 Including your leader,<br>128/135 <font color=red>n</font> 09-07 20:47:43-09-07 20:47:52 Teacher,<br>129/135 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-07 20:47:46-09-07 20:47:52 Parents,<br>130/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:47:46-09-07 20:47:52 Idols, etc.<br>131/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:47:47-09-07 20:47:52 Third,<br>132/135 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-07 20:47:48-09-07 20:47:52 Never take advantage of small profits,<br>133/135 <font color=red>de</font> 09-07 20:47:49-09-07 20:47:52 To bring your work to the highest level.<br>134/135 <font color=red></font> 09-07 20:47:49-09-07 20:48:04 5.<br>135/135 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-07 20:47:53-09-07 20:48:04 Lifelong learning.<br>