1/261 bg 09-01 17:09:05-09-01 17:09:16 Today, because of a sudden inspiration,
2/261 09-01 17:09:07-09-01 17:09:16 Let's talk about human nature.
3/261 09-01 17:09:09-09-01 17:09:16 Recently, the six-thousand-word essay written by Sun Yuchen ...
4/261 n 09-01 17:09:08-09-01 17:09:16 You all saw it,
5/261 bg 09-01 17:15:08-09-01 17:15:18 He got a tattoo of his ex-girlfriend's name on the back of h...
6/261 09-01 17:09:12-09-01 17:09:26 Intimate, private physical contact.
7/261 09-01 17:09:13-09-01 17:09:16 Finally, there was an added sentence that was completely fic...
8/261 09-01 17:09:42-09-01 17:09:52 How amazing.
9/261 xss 09-01 17:09:14-09-01 17:09:26 Exposing the truth in plain sight,
10/261 09-01 17:09:16-09-01 17:09:26 Putting on a literary shield for oneself.
11/261 bg 09-01 17:09:17-09-01 17:09:26 But I want to say,
12/261 09-01 17:10:23-09-01 17:10:29 If you only focus on the short essay,
13/261 n 09-01 17:09:19-09-01 17:09:26 You can't miss it.
14/261 09-01 17:09:21-09-01 17:09:26 The truly worthy of attention,
15/261 09-01 17:09:20-09-01 17:09:26 The essay is just a facade.
16/261 hp 09-01 17:09:23-09-01 17:09:26 What's truly terrifying is the underlying personality.
17/261 09-01 17:09:24-09-01 17:09:26 An extreme,
18/261 aaa 09-01 17:09:25-09-01 17:09:26 Selfish to the point of crossing any ethical boundary,
19/261 de 09-01 17:09:26-09-01 17:09:40 And a survival logic without psychological barriers.
20/261 bg 09-01 17:09:28-09-01 17:09:40 This is not a personal problem.
21/261 09-01 17:09:31-09-01 17:09:40 This is the most wound that should not be torn open in this ...
22/261 n 09-01 17:09:29-09-01 17:09:40 Let's dissect it first,
23/261 09-01 17:09:32-09-01 17:09:40 As long as it's beneficial to you,
24/261 aaa 09-01 17:09:33-09-01 17:09:40 Anyone who can break all the rules.
25/261 09-01 17:09:34-09-01 17:09:40 What's inside the brain?
26/261 hp 09-01 17:09:36-09-01 17:09:40 First of all, there is no such person.
27/261 09-01 17:09:37-09-01 17:09:40 We only have normal people dating,
28/261 09-01 17:09:40-09-01 17:09:52 What's in our brains is our relationship.
29/261 bg 09-01 17:09:41-09-01 17:09:52 Even though we broke up,
30/261 de 09-01 17:09:44-09-01 17:09:52 The fact that we were once together still exists.
31/261 n 09-01 17:09:45-09-01 17:09:52 Therefore, normal people will have a sense of awe.
32/261 hp 09-01 17:09:49-09-01 17:09:52 Cherish the time we've shared together.
33/261 09-01 17:09:46-09-01 17:09:52 Respect those who once trusted themselves.
34/261 aaa 09-01 17:09:48-09-01 17:09:52 But those who are extremely selfish will not be like this.
35/261 de 09-01 17:10:02-09-01 17:10:05 They never have,
36/261 bg 09-01 17:10:44-09-01 17:10:56 We only have one from beginning to end.
37/261 09-01 17:09:50-09-01 17:09:52 I, me, my
38/261 bg 09-01 17:09:53-09-01 17:10:05 The scene is as follows:
39/261 09-01 17:09:54-09-01 17:10:05 This is also the case for others.
40/261 09-01 17:09:56-09-01 17:10:05 For the mall,
41/261 aaa 09-01 17:09:58-09-01 17:10:05 Investors are still like this.
42/261 hp 09-01 17:09:57-09-01 17:10:05 Everyone is just a tool in their eyes.
43/261 n 09-01 17:10:08-09-01 17:10:18 Love is a tool.
44/261 n 09-01 17:10:00-09-01 17:10:05 Marriage is a tool.
45/261 09-01 17:10:01-09-01 17:10:05 Breakups can also be tools.
46/261 09-01 17:10:04-09-01 17:10:05 When a relationship can no longer provide value,
47/261 bg 09-01 17:10:06-09-01 17:10:18 The only remaining purpose is to squeeze out the last bit of...
48/261 09-01 17:10:12-09-01 17:10:18 What is a 6,000-word essay?
49/261 09-01 17:10:10-09-01 17:10:18 The purpose is to extract personal information from ex-partn...
50/261 09-01 17:10:09-09-01 17:10:18 Become an opinion,
51/261 aaa 09-01 17:10:13-09-01 17:10:18 To be used as a bargaining chip,
52/261 09-01 17:10:46-09-01 17:10:56 Squeeze it dry.
53/261 hp 09-01 17:10:14-09-01 17:10:18 Secondly,
54/261 09-01 17:10:51-09-01 17:10:56 These people have no rules.
55/261 09-01 17:10:16-09-01 17:10:29 Only if it benefits me.
56/261 aaa 09-01 17:10:26-09-01 17:10:29 Ordinary people do things,
57/261 de 09-01 17:10:17-09-01 17:10:28 There's a string in my brain,
58/261 09-01 17:10:18-09-01 17:10:29 Is this correct?
59/261 n 09-01 17:10:20-09-01 17:10:29 People who are extremely selfish only have one string in the...
60/261 bg 09-01 17:10:21-09-01 17:10:29 Is this helpful to me?
61/261 09-01 17:10:24-09-01 17:10:29 An ordinary person sees a red line and stops.
62/261 09-01 17:10:25-09-01 17:10:29 Think,
63/261 hp 09-01 17:10:28-09-01 17:10:30 This is the bottom line.
64/261 xss 09-01 17:10:29-09-01 17:10:42 People with extreme selfishness see red lines,
65/261 n 09-01 17:10:32-09-01 17:10:42 The first question that popped into my mind was what it woul...
66/261 de 09-01 17:10:30-09-01 17:10:42 If no one is stopping,
67/261 aaa 09-01 17:11:27-09-01 17:11:33 Or the cost is less than the benefit,
68/261 bg 09-01 17:10:33-09-01 17:10:42 They will cross it without hesitation.
69/261 09-01 17:10:48-09-01 17:10:56 Then laugh at you, stupid kid.
70/261 09-01 17:10:34-09-01 17:10:42 Why does Yuchen feel compelled to read those private message...
71/261 09-01 17:10:38-09-01 17:10:42 Because he has calculated and written it down.
72/261 09-01 17:10:36-09-01 17:10:42 Ge Tian didn't respond.
73/261 09-01 17:10:37-09-01 17:10:42 The public will criticize for a few days,
74/261 aaa 09-01 17:10:40-09-01 17:10:42 But it gained a lot of attention and traffic.
75/261 09-01 17:10:41-09-01 17:10:42 This transaction is not a loss.
76/261 hp 09-01 17:10:42-09-01 17:10:56 As for who was hurt,
77/261 n 09-01 17:10:45-09-01 17:10:56 Outside his scope of calculation.
78/261 09-01 17:10:53-09-01 17:10:56 There are even more terrifying people like this.
79/261 aaa 09-01 17:10:49-09-01 17:10:56 No shame,
80/261 de 09-01 17:10:50-09-01 17:10:56 Only pride.
81/261 xss 09-01 17:10:54-09-01 17:11:07 A normal person's sense of shame comes from doing something ...
82/261 09-01 17:10:56-09-01 17:11:07 The business that makes you uncomfortable inside,
83/261 09-01 17:11:31-09-01 17:11:33 Extremely selfish people.
84/261 bg 09-01 17:10:57-09-01 17:11:07 There is no business here.
85/261 hp 09-01 17:10:58-09-01 17:11:07 Or more accurately, they do.
86/261 09-01 17:11:58-09-01 17:12:10 But they can just casually turn it off.
87/261 09-01 17:11:50-09-01 17:11:58 After Sun Yichun finished writing her short essay,
88/261 09-01 17:12:27-09-01 17:12:35 The sound of the light switch being turned off startled Ms. ...
89/261 n 09-01 17:11:01-09-01 17:11:07 That's not my intention.
90/261 09-01 17:10:59-09-01 17:11:07 A light apology,
91/261 09-01 17:11:03-09-01 17:11:07 Add a sense of resentment, how you are still counting losses...
92/261 aaa 09-01 17:11:02-09-01 17:11:07 Do the most evil thing.
93/261 de 09-01 17:11:05-09-01 17:11:07 Say the most innocent words,
94/261 09-01 17:11:06-09-01 17:11:07 First, I'll stab you.
95/261 09-01 17:11:07-09-01 17:11:21 Then tell me,
96/261 09-01 17:11:10-09-01 17:11:21 I didn't do it on purpose.
97/261 bg 09-01 17:11:09-09-01 17:11:21 Don't go abroad,
98/261 09-01 17:11:11-09-01 17:11:21 Is it okay? / Is this alright?
99/261 n 09-01 17:11:12-09-01 17:11:21 What's even more terrifying is,
100/261 aaa 09-01 17:11:15-09-01 17:11:21 They really think they're right.
101/261 de 09-01 17:11:14-09-01 17:11:21 Okay,
102/261 hp 09-01 17:11:17-09-01 17:11:21 So, let's talk about where they went wrong.
103/261 09-01 17:11:18-09-01 17:11:32 Why can some people break through the line without any obsta...
104/261 09-01 17:11:19-09-01 17:11:21 The answer to this question is worth a hundred billion.
105/261 xss 09-01 17:11:21-09-01 17:11:32 The first mechanism is the art of self-rationalization.
106/261 09-01 17:11:23-09-01 17:11:33 People with extreme selfishness have a superpower.
107/261 bg 09-01 17:11:22-09-01 17:11:32 Wrap any selfish behavior in a guise of reasonableness or ev...
108/261 n 09-01 17:11:24-09-01 17:11:33 What is the purpose of Sun Yuchen writing short essays?
109/261 09-01 17:11:26-09-01 17:11:33 He claims to be restoring the truth.
110/261 hp 09-01 17:11:29-09-01 17:11:33 He claimed that the revealed private information was an atte...
111/261 09-01 17:11:30-09-01 17:11:33 Turned a unilateral attack into a retaliatory threat.
112/261 de 09-01 17:11:32-09-01 17:11:47 Behind every selfish act,
113/261 bg 09-01 17:11:34-09-01 17:11:47 He can always find a beautiful narrative.
114/261 09-01 17:11:35-09-01 17:11:47 I was forced,
115/261 n 09-01 17:12:16-09-01 17:12:23 I was forced to,
116/261 n 09-01 17:11:37-09-01 17:11:47 I am for justice,
117/261 09-01 17:11:38-09-01 17:11:47 When you are good enough at making excuses for yourself,
118/261 09-01 17:12:52-09-01 17:13:00 Nothing can stop you from achieving your goals.
119/261 09-01 17:11:40-09-01 17:11:47 It's not my fault.
120/261 09-01 17:11:43-09-01 17:11:58 Instead, this world forces me to do so by a perpetual victim...
121/261 aaa 09-01 17:11:44-09-01 17:11:47 The second mechanism is called empathy.
122/261 hp 09-01 17:11:42-09-01 17:11:47 What is the lack of empathy?
123/261 xss 09-01 17:11:46-09-01 17:11:58 The ability to feel pain from another person's perspective.
124/261 09-01 17:11:47-09-01 17:11:58 People who are extremely selfish aren't incapable of doing t...
125/261 bg 09-01 17:11:49-09-01 17:11:58 They selectively disable this ability.
126/261 de 09-01 17:11:56-09-01 17:12:10 When someone hinders them or is no longer useful to them,
127/261 n 09-01 17:11:51-09-01 17:11:58 The person I used to love has become an obstacle.
128/261 09-01 17:11:53-09-01 17:11:58 Clear obstacles,
129/261 hp 09-01 17:11:54-09-01 17:11:58 Don't hesitate,
130/261 aaa 09-01 17:11:55-09-01 17:11:58 No more empathy.
131/261 09-01 17:13:13-09-01 17:13:26 Sun Yuchen wrote so many intimate scenes in that six-thousan...
132/261 bg 09-01 17:11:59-09-01 17:12:10 He thought about it for even a second when he wrote it.
133/261 n 09-01 17:12:01-09-01 17:12:10 What would he feel when seeing these?
134/261 09-01 17:12:02-09-01 17:12:10 The answer is obvious.
135/261 xss 09-01 17:12:03-09-01 17:12:10 He doesn't care at all.
136/261 09-01 17:12:08-09-01 17:12:23 Because his heart only contains his own narrative.
137/261 09-01 17:12:05-09-01 17:12:10 Others are just extras in his story.
138/261 09-01 17:12:06-09-01 17:12:10 No independent feelings,
139/261 n 09-01 17:12:45-09-01 17:12:46 The right to be free from injury.
140/261 hp 09-01 17:12:09-09-01 17:12:10 The third mechanism is called the sense of privilege.
141/261 aaa 09-01 17:12:10-09-01 17:12:22 This is the core psychological characteristic of extreme sel...
142/261 bg 09-01 17:12:12-09-01 17:12:23 A deep-seated feeling of being different from others.
143/261 09-01 17:12:13-09-01 17:12:23 Ordinary people follow the rules,
144/261 de 09-01 17:12:20-09-01 17:12:24 Because we assume that rules apply to everyone.
145/261 09-01 17:12:17-09-01 17:12:23 However, those who are extremely selfish believe that rules ...
146/261 09-01 17:12:15-09-01 17:12:23 I am different.
147/261 hp 09-01 17:12:19-09-01 17:12:23 So,
148/261 xss 09-01 17:12:22-09-01 17:12:35 They can persuade their ex-partners,
149/261 09-01 17:12:23-09-01 17:12:34 Don't make private matters public.
150/261 aaa 09-01 17:12:24-09-01 17:12:35 Those who are injured,
151/261 09-01 17:13:35-09-01 17:13:51 You write six thousand words all by yourself.
152/261 bg 09-01 17:12:26-09-01 17:12:35 Double standard in short essays.
153/261 hp 09-01 17:12:30-09-01 17:12:35 In their view, it is not a defect.
154/261 09-01 17:12:28-09-01 17:12:35 But it is a natural right.
155/261 09-01 17:12:31-09-01 17:12:46 When a person truly believes they are different,
156/261 n 09-01 17:12:32-09-01 17:12:35 He really thinks he can do anything without any mistakes.
157/261 09-01 17:12:34-09-01 17:12:46 At this point,
158/261 xss 09-01 17:12:46-09-01 17:13:00 You might think,
159/261 de 09-01 17:12:35-09-01 17:12:46 What does this have to do with me?
160/261 09-01 17:12:36-09-01 17:12:46 The relationship is very close.
161/261 bg 09-01 17:12:38-09-01 17:12:46 It's too big.
162/261 09-01 17:12:41-09-01 17:12:46 Every time the baseline is broken,
163/261 hp 09-01 17:12:42-09-01 17:12:46 They are all dragging down the bottom line of the entire soc...
164/261 09-01 17:12:39-09-01 17:12:46 Today,
165/261 bg 09-01 17:12:47-09-01 17:13:00 Some people can publicly disclose their ex-partners' private...
166/261 aaa 09-01 17:12:43-09-01 17:12:46 More people will follow suit tomorrow.
167/261 hp 09-01 17:12:53-09-01 17:13:00 Today, someone can sell their private information in intimat...
168/261 n 09-01 17:12:55-09-01 17:13:00 Tomorrow, this kind of behavior will become a routine.
169/261 09-01 17:12:49-09-01 17:13:00 Today, someone can rely on hurting others.
170/261 09-01 17:12:50-09-01 17:13:00 To gain benefits,
171/261 09-01 17:14:07-09-01 17:14:18 More people will follow suit tomorrow, without hesitation in...
172/261 09-01 17:13:51-09-01 17:14:04 It's not a moral decline,
173/261 aaa 09-01 17:12:56-09-01 17:13:00 This is a bottom line breach of infectious disease.
174/261 09-01 17:15:21-09-01 17:15:32 What are we truly afraid of?
175/261 09-01 17:12:59-09-01 17:13:11 Not Sun Yuchen himself,
176/261 09-01 17:13:45-09-01 17:13:51 Instead, it represents the kind of...
177/261 de 09-01 17:13:00-09-01 17:13:11 As long as it's beneficial to you,
178/261 n 09-01 17:13:04-09-01 17:13:11 You can break through all the bottom lines of survival logic...
179/261 bg 09-01 17:13:01-09-01 17:13:11 Legalization,
180/261 09-01 17:13:03-09-01 17:13:11 Normalization,
181/261 09-01 17:13:06-09-01 17:13:11 Even worshipped.
182/261 09-01 17:13:07-09-01 17:13:11 When selfishness becomes a tacit belief,
183/261 hp 09-01 17:13:09-09-01 17:13:11 Everyone is a potential victim.
184/261 aaa 09-01 17:13:10-09-01 17:13:13 Let's take a look back at the case of Sun Yichen.
185/261 xss 09-01 17:13:11-09-01 17:13:26 His article ends with a disclaimer that it is purely fiction...
186/261 n 09-01 17:13:20-09-01 17:13:26 It means that he clearly knows what he is doing.
187/261 bg 09-01 17:13:14-09-01 17:13:26 This is not impulsive,
188/261 09-01 17:13:16-09-01 17:13:26 Plotting, scheming
189/261 09-01 17:13:17-09-01 17:13:26 He uses the law.
190/261 hp 09-01 17:13:19-09-01 17:13:26 Disclaimer,
191/261 09-01 17:13:21-09-01 17:13:26 Give privacy abuse a literary coat.
192/261 09-01 17:13:23-09-01 17:13:26 Use two fictional words,
193/261 09-01 17:13:34-09-01 17:13:38 Leave yourself an escape route.
194/261 de 09-01 17:13:24-09-01 17:13:38 But it pushed real people into the fire.
195/261 aaa 09-01 17:13:26-09-01 17:13:36 After he finished writing the article,
196/261 bg 09-01 17:13:27-09-01 17:13:38 His lawyer confirmed the lawsuit at the same time.
197/261 09-01 17:13:28-09-01 17:13:38 This means it was a well-planned and premeditated attack.
198/261 n 09-01 17:13:30-09-01 17:13:38 The fifth-grade class of the Weng family, all working togeth...
199/261 09-01 17:13:31-09-01 17:13:38 He once advised his ex-girlfriend not to make her personal m...
200/261 hp 09-01 17:13:32-09-01 17:13:38 Others only treat it as a joke.
201/261 09-01 17:13:36-09-01 17:13:39 Look,
202/261 xss 09-01 17:13:38-09-01 17:13:51 It means he is more aware than anyone else.
203/261 aaa 09-01 17:13:39-09-01 17:13:51 He is aware of the harm caused by exposing privacy.
204/261 bg 09-01 17:13:41-09-01 17:13:51 But he still did these three things.
205/261 09-01 17:13:42-09-01 17:13:51 This collectively paints a complete picture of a highly self...
206/261 09-01 17:14:27-09-01 17:14:28 Clearly knowing the precise cost of the evil deeds,
207/261 hp 09-01 17:13:46-09-01 17:13:51 Then, without any psychological barriers, he carried out the...
208/261 aaa 09-01 17:15:02-09-01 17:15:07 This kind of person is absolutely not worth dealing with, ev...
209/261 09-01 17:13:44-09-01 17:13:51 Never trust success.
210/261 n 09-01 17:13:48-09-01 17:13:51 Because he broke the last line of defense that allowed human...
211/261 de 09-01 17:13:49-09-01 17:14:04 Respect for the basic dignity of others.
212/261 bg 09-01 17:13:52-09-01 17:14:04 Finally, I want to say a few words to everyone seriously.
213/261 aaa 09-01 17:13:53-09-01 17:14:04 There may not be someone like Sun Yuchen in our surroundings...
214/261 hp 09-01 17:14:58-09-01 17:15:07 But there must be some smaller versions of Sun Yuchen.
215/261 09-01 17:13:55-09-01 17:14:04 Those who can lie for profit,
216/261 09-01 17:13:56-09-01 17:14:04 For those who can step on others to get ahead,
217/261 de 09-01 17:14:16-09-01 17:14:28 In order to protect themselves,
218/261 09-01 17:13:58-09-01 17:14:04 People who can throw pots at colleagues.
219/261 09-01 17:14:02-09-01 17:14:04 For those who are willing to do anything to win,
220/261 xss 09-01 17:14:04-09-01 17:14:18 You don't need to fight with these people,
221/261 n 09-01 17:14:01-09-01 17:14:04 But you need to keep your distance.
222/261 bg 09-01 17:14:05-09-01 17:14:18 Because their logic is,
223/261 hp 09-01 17:14:09-09-01 17:14:18 Today, I can harm others for personal gain.
224/261 09-01 17:14:08-09-01 17:14:18 Tomorrow, you could be harmed for a greater benefit.
225/261 n 09-01 17:14:11-09-01 17:14:18 In the face of a person without bottom line,
226/261 09-01 17:14:12-09-01 17:14:18 You never know when you might become his victim.
227/261 aaa 09-01 17:14:13-09-01 17:14:18 More importantly, be vigilant about yourself.
228/261 09-01 17:14:15-09-01 17:14:28 Everyone has a small business inside them, which only benefi...
229/261 09-01 17:15:00-09-01 17:15:07 Today, he can justify a small yellow.
230/261 09-01 17:16:41-09-01 17:16:56 It's okay,
231/261 09-01 17:14:18-09-01 17:14:28 Tomorrow, I can reasonably step on someone.
232/261 bg 09-01 17:14:19-09-01 17:14:28 It's okay,
233/261 hp 09-01 17:14:23-09-01 17:14:28 It's okay to forgive the person who hurt me, even if it take...
234/261 09-01 17:14:21-09-01 17:14:28 Maintaining the bottom line is not a one-time decision.
235/261 09-01 17:14:22-09-01 17:14:28 It's about persevering in every day and every thing.
236/261 09-01 17:15:01-09-01 17:15:07 Sun Yuchen is not the first,
237/261 n 09-01 17:14:24-09-01 17:14:28 It won't be the last one either.
238/261 aaa 09-01 17:14:25-09-01 17:14:28 What deserves our attention,
239/261 xss 09-01 17:14:28-09-01 17:14:41 It was never a Sun Yuchen.
240/261 bg 09-01 17:14:29-09-01 17:14:41 Instead, the one that is beneficial to me.
241/261 09-01 17:14:31-09-01 17:14:41 It can break all logical boundaries.
242/261 de 09-01 17:14:32-09-01 17:14:41 Being increasingly accepted and recognized by more people.
243/261 hp 09-01 17:14:36-09-01 17:14:41 Every time the baseline is broken,
244/261 09-01 17:14:33-09-01 17:14:41 They are all making the world a little colder.
245/261 n 09-01 17:14:35-09-01 17:14:41 Every selfish indulgence,
246/261 aaa 09-01 17:14:49-09-01 17:14:53 They are making trust more fragile.
247/261 09-01 17:14:38-09-01 17:14:53 As more and more people treat their bottom line as a line th...
248/261 09-01 17:14:37-09-01 17:14:41 We all, including those who cross the line,
249/261 aaa 09-01 17:14:40-09-01 17:14:41 I will become a victim of this barbaric game myself.
250/261 09-01 17:14:41-09-01 17:14:53 So please remember,
251/261 bg 09-01 17:14:43-09-01 17:14:53 Character is not revealed in times of ease,
252/261 09-01 17:14:44-09-01 17:14:53 When you no longer love each other in adversity,
253/261 09-01 17:14:45-09-01 17:14:53 When you break up with someone, don't do it in public.
254/261 n 09-01 17:14:46-09-01 17:14:53 In the unknown.
255/261 hp 09-01 17:14:48-09-01 17:14:53 What makes us human,
256/261 09-01 17:14:50-09-01 17:14:53 That's because we have a bottom line.
257/261 xss 09-01 17:14:53-09-01 17:15:07 I am Pan,
258/261 de 09-01 17:14:52-09-01 17:14:53 Pay attention to me,
259/261 bg 09-01 17:14:55-09-01 17:15:07 Learn life wisdom,
260/261 09-01 17:14:56-09-01 17:15:07 Harvesting growth,
261/261 n 09-01 17:14:57-09-01 17:15:07 See you next time.