1/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:10:21-09-05 10:10:25 Planting trees is a common student activity.<br>2/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:15:43-09-05 10:15:49 His narcissism is mainly manifested through his hoarding beh...<br>3/203 <font color=red>de</font> 09-05 10:10:12-09-05 10:10:25 I call this behavior a knowledge hoarding.<br>4/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:09:47-09-05 10:10:03 The essence of hoarding is that hoarders inject value into t...<br>5/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:10:10-09-05 10:10:15 So far,<br>6/203 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-05 10:11:00-09-05 10:11:11 Hoarders misinterpret hoarding items as part of themselves.<br>7/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:09:46-09-05 10:09:50 Therefore,<br>8/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:10:38-09-05 10:10:45 When hoarders look at their hoarded items,<br>9/203 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-05 10:09:49-09-05 10:10:05 He saw a fantasy image from his own imaginary world.<br>10/203 <font color=red>de</font> 09-05 10:09:52-09-05 10:10:05 He was so obsessed with this imaginary image,<br>11/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:10:11-09-05 10:10:15 It is this illusion that drives him to hoard.<br>12/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:09:54-09-05 10:10:05 In the example of planting trees,<br>13/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:10:04-09-05 10:10:15 A young, well-informed female scholar in a fantasy world is ...<br>14/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:09:57-09-05 10:10:05 That's Hannah.<br>15/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:10:00-09-05 10:10:05 Arent is just a fantasy.<br>16/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:10:01-09-05 10:10:15 The images and the ideal images are not exactly the same.<br>17/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:10:05-09-05 10:10:15 Later, I will focus on this and emphasize it when speaking i...<br>18/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:10:07-09-05 10:10:15 After he stripped off the English world,<br>19/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:10:14-09-05 10:10:25 When I transfer the eight-thirty bus to my own first-person ...<br>20/203 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-05 10:10:15-09-05 10:10:25 He is building a self-contained fantasy world.<br>21/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:10:18-09-05 10:10:25 And to acquire these knowledge in various ways and incorpora...<br>22/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:10:20-09-05 10:10:25 This ownership,<br>23/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:10:23-09-05 10:10:25 Because we all know that ownership and usage rights are two ...<br>24/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:10:24-09-05 10:10:35 Often, ownership is an illusion.<br>25/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:10:27-09-05 10:10:35 The right of use is a reality, an actual thing.<br>26/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:10:25-09-05 10:10:35 Okay, so therefore...<br>27/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:11:39-09-05 10:11:47 A book about planting trees and its blog are actually a form...<br>28/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:12:13-09-05 10:12:23 These hoarded items themselves carry the ideal image that Ma...<br>29/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:10:28-09-05 10:10:35 Even when planting trees, I often post my own photos.<br>30/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:10:29-09-05 10:10:35 White, PhD in philosophy husband.<br>31/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:10:31-09-05 10:10:35 He is also a person who understands this.<br>32/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:10:33-09-05 10:10:45 The posts he posted,<br>33/203 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-05 10:10:35-09-05 10:10:45 That's exactly what a narcissist does.<br>34/203 <font color=red>de</font> 09-05 10:10:34-09-05 10:10:45 This word.<br>35/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:10:40-09-05 10:10:45 Where did the term "narcissist" originate in Western culture...<br>36/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:10:44-09-05 10:10:45 It comes from the beautiful story of a young man named Nikao...<br>37/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:10:37-09-05 10:10:45 He sat by the river.<br>38/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:10:43-09-05 10:10:45 Looking at my beautiful reflection in the water,<br>39/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:15:46-09-05 10:16:01 Unable to stop,<br>40/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:10:45-09-05 10:11:00 Because I'm too handsome.<br>41/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:10:47-09-05 10:11:00 Then, is there any way for me to be with myself?<br>42/203 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-05 10:11:24-09-05 10:11:35 Then he became depressed.<br>43/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:10:48-09-05 10:11:00 Then it turned into a water lily.<br>44/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:10:57-09-05 10:11:00 This is also why the water lily should be called "ow".<br>45/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:10:51-09-05 10:11:00 I kiss,<br>46/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:10:54-09-05 10:11:00 This should also be the name of water lilies.<br>47/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:10:55-09-05 10:11:00 Here you can see water.<br>48/203 <font color=red>de</font> 09-05 10:10:58-09-05 10:11:11 It is a metaphor for human consciousness.<br>49/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:11:03-09-05 10:11:11 For example, when we talk about the mind,<br>50/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:11:04-09-05 10:11:11 Why do we say "sea"?<br>51/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:11:07-09-05 10:11:11 Because consciousness and water have the same structure and ...<br>52/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:11:06-09-05 10:11:11 He symbolizes the fantasy world in human minds.<br>53/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:12:14-09-05 10:12:23 The image of Nakasato in the water,<br>54/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:11:08-09-05 10:11:11 It's just the image of human imagination in a fictional worl...<br>55/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:11:10-09-05 10:11:11 How did this stillness come about?<br>56/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:11:11-09-05 10:11:24 It is through human writing,<br>57/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:11:13-09-05 10:11:24 Human imagination,<br>58/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:11:14-09-05 10:11:24 This is the relationship between hoarding chickens and self-...<br>59/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:11:16-09-05 10:11:24 Okay, now let me give you three more examples to help you un...<br>60/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:11:17-09-05 10:11:24 The two examples are a pair.<br>61/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:11:19-09-05 10:11:24 He has something to do with money,<br>62/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:11:21-09-05 10:11:24 Wealth and material possessions.<br>63/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:11:26-09-05 10:11:35 The first one is some common elderly people in our society.<br>64/203 <font color=red>de</font> 09-05 10:11:23-09-05 10:11:35 They won't throw away leftover food.<br>65/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:11:28-09-05 10:11:35 Collect and store garbage and waste at home.<br>66/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:11:30-09-05 10:11:35 This thing is due to the impact of last century's invasion a...<br>67/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:11:29-09-05 10:11:35 In the fantasy worlds of several generations, there were dis...<br>68/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:11:32-09-05 10:11:35 And their imagined images are of themselves losing life in t...<br>69/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:12:25-09-05 10:12:34 They were captivated by the way these images presented thems...<br>70/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:11:33-09-05 10:11:35 Shame and fear.<br>71/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:11:35-09-05 10:11:47 In other words,<br>72/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:11:36-09-05 10:11:47 They were so afraid.<br>73/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:11:38-09-05 10:11:47 The catastrophic future,<br>74/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:11:41-09-05 10:11:47 This, in turn, made this fear a fixed mindset.<br>75/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:11:46-09-05 10:11:47 This caused them to become obsessed with it.<br>76/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:11:42-09-05 10:11:47 Have you noticed this obsession here?<br>77/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:16:08-09-05 10:16:21 It is maintained by this habitual fear.<br>78/203 <font color=red>de</font> 09-05 10:11:45-09-05 10:11:47 Why?<br>79/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:13:10-09-05 10:13:24 Because their minds are only filled with this kind of thinki...<br>80/203 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-05 10:11:47-09-05 10:12:00 Only this kind of scarcity.<br>81/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:11:49-09-05 10:12:00 This fear,<br>82/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:11:50-09-05 10:12:00 They never learned any other way of thinking in that era.<br>83/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:11:52-09-05 10:12:00 The second example can actually help you better understand.<br>84/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:11:53-09-05 10:12:00 I have said before,<br>85/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:11:55-09-05 10:12:00 Hallucination and idealization are two different things.<br>86/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:11:56-09-05 10:12:10 You can think of it as in the minds of these old people,<br>87/203 <font color=red>de</font> 09-05 10:12:00-09-05 10:12:10 His thing is a fantasy,<br>88/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:11:59-09-05 10:12:00 He is not ideal.<br>89/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:12:01-09-05 10:12:10 They didn't want to approach this image.<br>90/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:12:03-09-05 10:12:10 They don't want this kind of thing to happen,<br>91/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:12:04-09-05 10:12:10 It is actually a learned and forced one.<br>92/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:12:06-09-05 10:12:10 The second example,<br>93/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:12:07-09-05 10:12:10 Actually, there are many literary works that show this.<br>94/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:12:08-09-05 10:12:10 Similar to the Eight-One Old Man,<br>95/203 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-05 10:12:10-09-05 10:12:23 O'Neal,<br>96/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:12:19-09-05 10:12:23 The image of miserly figures like Graland and Gao Lao Tou.<br>97/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:12:17-09-05 10:12:23 These financiers are fantasizing about imaginary images in t...<br>98/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:12:16-09-05 10:12:23 In fact, it is more like an ideal image.<br>99/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:12:20-09-05 10:12:34 If the former's obsession with hoarding is driven by fear,<br>100/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:13:35-09-05 10:13:38 The obsession of the treasurers with hoarding is driven by p...<br>101/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:13:06-09-05 10:13:09 In their world,<br>102/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:12:22-09-05 10:12:23 When they see their accumulated wealth,<br>103/203 <font color=red>de</font> 09-05 10:12:23-09-05 10:12:34 They saw a very powerful self.<br>104/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:12:26-09-05 10:12:34 I am very proud to be such a manifestation.<br>105/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:12:28-09-05 10:12:34 Therefore, you can also see from here that...<br>106/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:12:29-09-05 10:12:34 The religious reform carried out by Calvin,<br>107/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:12:31-09-05 10:12:34 He actually greatly regulated the meaning of hoarding for pe...<br>108/203 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-05 10:12:34-09-05 10:12:49 Okay, so the last example is actually a lot of parents.<br>109/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:12:32-09-05 10:12:34 Asian parents,<br>110/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:12:37-09-05 10:12:49 Their unbelievable control over their children,<br>111/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:12:35-09-05 10:12:49 and the desire for children to succeed,<br>112/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:13:57-09-05 10:14:08 The obsession of wanting a daughter to become a phoenix.<br>113/203 <font color=red>de</font> 09-05 10:12:38-09-05 10:12:49 The two examples above are more about people.<br>114/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:12:39-09-05 10:12:49 He naturally knew an item.<br>115/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:12:42-09-05 10:12:49 He is an object.<br>116/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:12:48-09-05 10:12:51 Then, he consciously swallowed it.<br>117/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:12:45-09-05 10:12:49 However, in this example,<br>118/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:12:49-09-05 10:13:07 In a family like yours,<br>119/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:12:56-09-05 10:13:09 In fact, you can often infer it by observing how the caregiv...<br>120/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:12:52-09-05 10:13:09 Parents actually treat their children as a hoarding object.<br>121/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:12:59-09-05 10:13:09 He didn't treat his children as beings with emotions.<br>122/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:12:53-09-05 10:13:09 Emotional,<br>123/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:13:00-09-05 10:13:09 People who have emotions.<br>124/203 <font color=red>de</font> 09-05 10:13:02-09-05 10:13:09 Okay, and this is because in the fantasy world of many paren...<br>125/203 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-05 10:13:03-09-05 10:13:09 Because I gave my children life,<br>126/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:13:12-09-05 10:13:24 Therefore, I am the creator god in this closed-off family st...<br>127/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:13:17-09-05 10:13:24 Self-sufficient, all-rounder<br>128/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:13:13-09-05 10:13:24 The children are their own creations.<br>129/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:13:14-09-05 10:13:24 Therefore,<br>130/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:14:11-09-05 10:14:19 When they look at their children,<br>131/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:14:08-09-05 10:14:19 Seeing a perfect self-image,<br>132/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:13:20-09-05 10:13:24 Then they never learned how to truly appreciate others.<br>133/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:13:21-09-05 10:13:24 Therefore, their perfect self can only be achieved through t...<br>134/203 <font color=red>de</font> 09-05 10:13:23-09-05 10:13:38 That means appreciating someone else is a good thing.<br>135/203 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-05 10:13:24-09-05 10:13:38 You are also good.<br>136/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:13:25-09-05 10:13:38 We can be good at the same time.<br>137/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:16:50-09-05 10:17:01 I am a good freelancer,<br>138/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:13:28-09-05 10:13:38 I can see your strengths,<br>139/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:13:31-09-05 10:13:38 I can also see my own strengths.<br>140/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:13:32-09-05 10:13:38 But these parents are going in the opposite direction.<br>141/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:13:39-09-05 10:13:53 They can't see the good qualities in children.<br>142/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:13:36-09-05 10:13:38 Because they also grew up under oppression.<br>143/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:13:38-09-05 10:13:53 In their memory,<br>144/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:13:43-09-05 10:13:53 The "tooth-biting" is a symbol of authority and perfection.<br>145/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:13:42-09-05 10:13:53 Here's the reason why.<br>146/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:13:46-09-05 10:13:53 The deeper reason for this is here,<br>147/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:15:25-09-05 10:15:36 Actually, it refers to the history of two thousand years in ...<br>148/203 <font color=red>de</font> 09-05 10:13:49-09-05 10:13:53 There has never been a definition or interpretation of the h...<br>149/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:13:47-09-05 10:13:53 Because it is a very closed system.<br>150/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:13:50-09-05 10:13:53 I'll explain it to you using a more mathematical concept.<br>151/203 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-05 10:13:53-09-05 10:14:08 He is similar to a set.<br>152/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:13:54-09-05 10:14:08 What is in this set?<br>153/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:13:58-09-05 10:14:08 There is an emperor,<br>154/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:14:00-09-05 10:14:08 There is this minister,<br>155/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:14:04-09-05 10:14:19 A gentleman has a general.<br>156/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:14:01-09-05 10:14:08 There are commoners,<br>157/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:14:52-09-05 10:15:03 The people have this official,<br>158/203 <font color=red>de</font> 09-05 10:14:05-09-05 10:14:19 But there is no concept called "person" at all.<br>159/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:14:09-09-05 10:14:19 There is no such concept.<br>160/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:14:15-09-05 10:14:19 There is no definition of "person" that does not involve a m...<br>161/203 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-05 10:14:19-09-05 10:14:32 Say, you're doing this thing, are you not human?<br>162/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:14:12-09-05 10:14:19 How to open a machine,<br>163/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:14:16-09-05 10:14:19 In addition to this set,<br>164/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:14:26-09-05 10:14:32 Within this set,<br>165/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:14:20-09-05 10:14:32 In everyday social life, there is no concept or identity of ...<br>166/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:15:41-09-05 10:15:49 Therefore, the entire world is not beyond the king's land.<br>167/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:14:22-09-05 10:14:32 The Battle of the Heights,<br>168/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:14:23-09-05 10:14:32 Could it be that he is a loyal subject?<br>169/203 <font color=red>de</font> 09-05 10:14:31-09-05 10:14:46 All the land and people are actually stockpiled by one emper...<br>170/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:14:27-09-05 10:14:32 Here, many friends will say...<br>171/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:14:30-09-05 10:14:46 I also like to stock up on things.<br>172/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:14:32-09-05 10:14:46 For example, I like to collect keyboards.<br>173/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:14:34-09-05 10:14:46 Is collecting postage stamps a form of hoarding?<br>174/203 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-05 10:15:15-09-05 10:15:22 The answer is yes.<br>175/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:14:36-09-05 10:14:46 It is also a hoarding.<br>176/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:14:38-09-05 10:14:46 But it's not sick,<br>177/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:14:41-09-05 10:14:46 It doesn't constitute an obstacle.<br>178/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:14:42-09-05 10:14:46 Because you just emphasized the relationship between GPT and...<br>179/203 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-05 10:14:45-09-05 10:15:03 We all know that the term "narcissistic personality disorder...<br>180/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:17:27-09-05 10:17:32 Why is there a disorder at the end?<br>181/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:14:49-09-05 10:15:03 Because it is an obstacle.<br>182/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:14:48-09-05 10:15:03 No,<br>183/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:14:53-09-05 10:15:03 Why is that so?<br>184/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:14:56-09-05 10:15:03 Because everyone has a phone,<br>185/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:15:00-09-05 10:15:03 Everyone lives in their own fantasy world, to some extent.<br>186/203 <font color=red>de</font> 09-05 10:15:03-09-05 10:15:18 When the imaginary world and the real world collide,<br>187/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:14:59-09-05 10:15:03 What should we do?<br>188/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:15:38-09-05 10:15:49 We are prone to anger.<br>189/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:15:06-09-05 10:15:19 Will we deny your reaction as if you are planting a tree?<br>190/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:15:04-09-05 10:15:21 It's actually a very typical denial response.<br>191/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:15:07-09-05 10:15:22 This is also the case for these narcissistic individuals,<br>192/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:15:10-09-05 10:15:22 One of the methods they use.<br>193/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:15:11-09-05 10:15:22 Okay, this is a very important distinction.<br>194/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:15:17-09-05 10:15:36 So, of course you can have a little hobby.<br>195/203 <font color=red>de</font> 09-05 10:15:24-09-05 10:15:36 This doesn't constitute narcissistic personality disorder.<br>196/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:15:14-09-05 10:15:22 I just want to be free,<br>197/203 <font color=red>bg</font> 09-05 10:15:27-09-05 10:15:36 Interfere with family members,<br>198/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:15:28-09-05 10:15:36 Hinder the normal functioning of society,<br>199/203 <font color=red>aaa</font> 09-05 10:15:29-09-05 10:15:36 Is that okay?<br>200/203 <font color=red></font> 09-05 10:15:32-09-05 10:15:36 So, this episode is over.<br>201/203 <font color=red>hp</font> 09-05 10:15:36-09-05 10:15:49 Okay,<br>202/203 <font color=red>xss</font> 09-05 10:15:35-09-05 10:15:49 I am Guo Sijia.<br>203/203 <font color=red>n</font> 09-05 10:15:39-09-05 10:15:49 See you next time. Bye bye.<br>