1/378 0.09-2.07 <font color=red>n</font> 孙以晨的长文与景田的回应，08-28 21:39:21-08-28 21:39:23<font color=blue>Sun's long essay and Jing's response,</font><br>2/378 2.43-7.41 <font color=red>aaa</font> 让一段已经结束的私人关系在二十四小时以内重归舆论中心。08-28 21:39:21-08-28 21:39:24<font color=blue>Bring a previously ended private relationship back into the public eye within 24 hours.</font><br>3/378 8.07-9.15 <font color=red>n</font> 孙的那篇长文里，08-28 21:39:22-08-28 21:39:24<font color=blue>In Sun's long article,</font><br>4/378 9.57-9.81 <font color=red>xss</font> 爱情、08-28 21:39:23-08-28 21:39:34<font color=blue>Love,</font><br>5/378 10.29-10.53 <font color=red>hp</font> 金钱、08-28 21:39:24-08-28 21:39:25<font color=blue>Money,</font><br>6/378 11.01-11.25 <font color=red>n</font> 赌博、08-28 21:39:24-08-28 21:39:25<font color=blue>Gambling,</font><br>7/378 11.67-14.73 <font color=red>n</font> 巨额转账以及关系破裂后的财产纠纷，08-28 21:39:25-08-28 21:39:27<font color=blue>Large transfers and disputes over property after a relationship ends,</font><br>8/378 15.21-19.65 <font color=red>aaa</font> 甚至叫妈妈 a i cloud 的神欲一应俱全。08-28 21:39:25-08-28 21:39:28<font color=blue>Even called "Mother" by a i cloud, it has everything.</font><br>9/378 20.85-22.23 <font color=red>n</font> 景甜微博上的回应也很短，08-28 21:39:26-08-28 21:39:29<font color=blue>Jing Tian's response on Weibo was also short.</font><br>10/378 22.71-24.75 <font color=red>hp</font> 核心意思是不为钱出卖。08-28 21:39:27-08-28 21:39:31<font color=blue>The core meaning is not to sell out for money.</font><br>11/378 24.87-27.51 <font color=red>n</font> 爱情并表示相信法律的判断。08-28 21:39:28-08-28 21:39:29<font color=blue>Love and respect the law.</font><br>12/378 28.53-28.71 <font color=red>aaa</font> 眼下，08-28 21:39:28-08-28 21:39:29<font color=blue>Currently,</font><br>13/378 29.13-31.36 <font color=red>de</font> 相关的民事案件已经进入司法程序，08-28 21:39:29-08-28 21:39:57<font color=blue>The related civil cases have entered the judicial process.</font><br>14/378 31.66-33.7 <font color=red>lx</font> 但还没有经过实体审理，08-28 21:39:30-08-28 21:39:46<font color=blue>But it hasn't been subject to a formal trial.</font><br>15/378 34.0-35.26 <font color=red>n</font> 更谈不上最终定论。08-28 21:39:30-08-28 21:39:32<font color=blue>Let alone a final conclusion.</font><br>16/378 35.74-37.78 <font color=red>aaa</font> 所以此刻记者判断谁在说谎，08-28 21:39:31-08-28 21:39:33<font color=blue>Therefore, at this moment, the reporter judged who was lying.</font><br>17/378 38.14-38.98 <font color=red>n</font> 其实意义不大。08-28 21:39:32-08-28 21:39:33<font color=blue>It doesn't really matter.</font><br>18/378 40.12-41.38 <font color=red>hp</font> 但在这种小作文里，08-28 21:39:32-08-28 21:39:35<font color=blue>In this short essay,</font><br>19/378 41.74-43.48 <font color=red>n</font> 叙事者天然占者优势。08-28 21:39:33-08-28 21:39:35<font color=blue>The narrator has a natural advantage.</font><br>20/378 44.2-45.88 <font color=red>aaa</font> 一个人掌握大量私人细节，08-28 21:39:34-08-28 21:39:36<font color=blue>A person has access to a large amount of private information,</font><br>21/378 46.3-48.1 <font color=red>xss</font> 按照自己的记忆重新剪裁，08-28 21:39:35-08-28 21:40:03<font color=blue>Re-edit according to your own memory,</font><br>22/378 48.4-49.66 <font color=red>hp</font> 再配上聊天记录、08-28 21:39:36-08-28 21:39:38<font color=blue>Add chat records,</font><br>23/378 50.08-50.62 <font color=red>n</font> 转账截图、08-28 21:39:36-08-28 21:39:37<font color=blue>Screenshot of a transfer,</font><br>24/378 51.1-51.28 <font color=red>n</font> 合影、08-28 21:39:37-08-28 21:39:38<font color=blue>Photo,</font><br>25/378 51.46-52.6 <font color=red>aaa</font> 照片和时间线，08-28 21:39:38-08-28 21:39:38<font color=blue>Photos and timelines,</font><br>26/378 53.14-55.6 <font color=red>n</font> 加上最后免责声明的纯属虚构，08-28 21:39:38-08-28 21:39:41<font color=blue>Purely fictional, with a disclaimer at the end.</font><br>27/378 56.08-58.66 <font color=red>de</font> 很容易就能够拼出一个逻辑自洽的故事，08-28 21:39:39-08-28 21:39:58<font color=blue>It is easy to construct a logically consistent story,</font><br>28/378 59.44-62.2 <font color=red>n</font> 而另一方不能也同样能够拿出另一套版本。08-28 21:39:40-08-28 21:39:43<font color=blue>And the other side also cannot, and can produce another version.</font><br>29/378 63.14-64.16 <font color=red>hp</font> 亲密关系结束之后，08-28 21:39:40-08-28 21:39:43<font color=blue>After a close relationship ends,</font><br>30/378 64.52-66.84 <font color=red>aaa</font> 双方手里都攥着最多的材料，08-28 21:39:41-08-28 21:39:42<font color=blue>Both sides have the most materials in their hands.</font><br>31/378 67.22-70.25 <font color=red>n</font> 也往往带着最浓的情绪和最大的利益诉求。08-28 21:39:42-08-28 21:39:44<font color=blue>They often carry the strongest emotions and greatest interests.</font><br>32/378 71.01-72.87 <font color=red>aaa</font> 法院之所以需要举证、08-28 21:39:43-08-28 21:39:44<font color=blue>The court requires evidence,</font><br>33/378 73.56-73.8 <font color=red>hp</font> 质证，08-28 21:39:44-08-28 21:39:46<font color=blue>Verification,</font><br>34/378 74.62-75.64 <font color=red>n</font> 遵循证据规则，08-28 21:39:44-08-28 21:39:46<font color=blue>Following the rules of evidence,</font><br>35/378 76.12-79.58 <font color=red>n</font> 正是因为这个推特和微博上并没有这些程序。08-28 21:39:45-08-28 21:39:47<font color=blue>Because there are no such programs on Twitter and Weibo.</font><br>36/378 80.75-81.17 <font color=red>aaa</font> 这件事，08-28 21:39:46-08-28 21:39:46<font color=blue>This matter,</font><br>37/378 81.23-84.53 <font color=red>hp</font> 倒让我想起一个比八卦更值得琢磨的问题。08-28 21:39:46-08-28 21:39:51<font color=blue>I was reminded of a question that is more worth pondering than gossip.</font><br>38/378 85.4-87.02 <font color=red>n</font> 为什么有些恋爱结束以后，08-28 21:39:47-08-28 21:39:48<font color=blue>Why some relationships end after,</font><br>39/378 87.38-88.52 <font color=red>lx</font> 留下的只是遗憾，08-28 21:39:48-08-28 21:40:11<font color=blue>What remains is regret.</font><br>40/378 89.15-91.68 <font color=red>aaa</font> 而另一些却非要弄成一片废墟？08-28 21:39:48-08-28 21:39:51<font color=blue>And some, however, insist on turning it into a ruin?</font><br>41/378 92.92-93.58 <font color=red>n</font> 我想起一句，08-28 21:39:49-08-28 21:39:50<font color=blue>I remembered a saying,</font><br>42/378 93.7-93.94 <font color=red>n</font> 俗话，08-28 21:39:50-08-28 21:39:51<font color=blue>Proverb,</font><br>43/378 94.71-96.09 <font color=red>n</font> 不要和赌徒谈恋爱。08-28 21:39:51-08-28 21:39:53<font color=blue>Don't date gamblers.</font><br>44/378 96.93-101.93 <font color=red>n</font> 我说的赌图当然不能直接套用在未经任何司法认定的具体的人身上，08-28 21:39:51-08-28 21:39:56<font color=blue>What I said about gambling images cannot be directly applied to any specific person who has not been legally identified.</font><br>45/378 102.86-105.48 <font color=red>aaa</font> 我关心的其实是一种行为结构。08-28 21:39:52-08-28 21:39:54<font color=blue>What I'm concerned about is a behavioral pattern.</font><br>46/378 106.32-107.94 <font color=red>hp</font> 一个人习惯了不断下注，08-28 21:39:53-08-28 21:39:56<font color=blue>A person has become accustomed to constantly betting.</font><br>47/378 108.5-109.04 <font color=red>n</font> 不断加码，08-28 21:39:53-08-28 21:39:55<font color=blue>Increasing investment,</font><br>48/378 109.55-110.33 <font color=red>aaa</font> 不甘心止损，08-28 21:39:54-08-28 21:39:56<font color=blue>Not willing to give up,</font><br>49/378 110.98-112.42 <font color=red>n</font> 迷恋巨大的不确定性。08-28 21:39:55-08-28 21:39:57<font color=blue>Obsessed with the vast uncertainty.</font><br>50/378 112.82-114.2 <font color=red>aaa</font> 也越来越无法接受，08-28 21:39:56-08-28 21:39:58<font color=blue>I am also becoming increasingly unable to accept it.</font><br>51/378 114.44-115.85 <font color=red>n</font> 有些东西已经回不来了。08-28 21:39:57-08-28 21:39:58<font color=blue>Some things are gone forever.</font><br>52/378 115.97-119.78 <font color=red>hp</font> 这个事实当这一套逻辑侵入了亲密关系，08-28 21:39:58-08-28 21:40:01<font color=blue>When this logic intrudes into intimate relationships,</font><br>53/378 120.34-120.58 <font color=red>n</font> 麻烦，08-28 21:39:58-08-28 21:39:59<font color=blue>Excuse me,</font><br>54/378 120.76-123.39 <font color=red>de</font> 往往比输掉一大笔钱还要更严重。08-28 21:39:59-08-28 21:40:53<font color=blue>It is often more serious than losing a large sum of money.</font><br>55/378 124.8-126.42 <font color=red>n</font> 赌徒最上头的是命运，08-28 21:40:00-08-28 21:40:01<font color=blue>Gamblers are most concerned about fate.</font><br>56/378 126.72-127.92 <font color=red>de</font> 突然翻盘的刺激。08-28 21:40:00-08-28 21:40:26<font color=blue>The thrill of a sudden turnaround.</font><br>57/378 128.84-133.04 <font color=red>aaa</font> 社会学家欧文戈夫曼在一九六七年写过一篇很有意思的文章，08-28 21:40:01-08-28 21:40:04<font color=blue>In 1967, the sociologist Erving Goffman wrote a very interesting article.</font><br>58/378 133.38-134.82 <font color=red>n</font> 叫行动在哪里？08-28 21:40:02-08-28 21:40:03<font color=blue>Where is the operation?</font><br>59/378 135.39-139.5 <font color=red>bg</font> 他研究赌徒冒险和各种高风险行为提出了一个概念，08-28 21:40:02-08-28 21:40:57<font color=blue>He proposed a concept about gambling addiction and various high-risk behaviors.</font><br>60/378 139.62-141.06 <font color=red>n</font> 叫做命运性行动。08-28 21:40:03-08-28 21:40:04<font color=blue>Called fate action.</font><br>61/378 141.48-142.02 <font color=red>hp</font> fake for action.08-28 21:40:04-08-28 21:40:06<font color=blue>Fake for action.</font><br>62/378 143.08-143.32 <font color=red>hp</font> 他说，08-28 21:45:05-08-28 21:45:06<font color=blue>He said,</font><br>63/378 143.5-147.1 <font color=red>n</font> 现在生活里的大部分时间其实都是很平淡的工作。08-28 21:40:05-08-28 21:40:07<font color=blue>Most of the time in life is now quite mundane work.</font><br>64/378 147.34-148.3 <font color=red>xss</font> 存钱还贷、08-28 21:40:06-08-28 21:40:26<font color=blue>Saving for debt repayment,</font><br>65/378 148.66-149.14 <font color=red>n</font> 交保险、08-28 21:40:06-08-28 21:40:07<font color=blue>Insurance,</font><br>66/378 149.44-149.92 <font color=red>aaa</font> 照顾家庭、08-28 21:40:07-08-28 21:40:08<font color=blue>Take care of the family,</font><br>67/378 150.37-153.37 <font color=red>hp</font> 成年人滑大人的经历就是为了降低不确定性，08-28 21:40:07-08-28 21:40:11<font color=blue>Adults are experienced in dealing with uncertainty,</font><br>68/378 154.02-156.36 <font color=red>n</font> 而赌场恰恰提供了相反的经验。08-28 21:40:08-08-28 21:40:10<font color=blue>However, casinos offer the opposite experience.</font><br>69/378 156.94-157.6 <font color=red>n</font> 几分钟之内，08-28 21:40:09-08-28 21:40:10<font color=blue>In a matter of minutes,</font><br>70/378 157.84-161.03 <font color=red>aaa</font> 你的整个人生就可能翻个个儿赢了。08-28 21:40:09-08-28 21:40:11<font color=blue>Your whole life could turn around.</font><br>71/378 161.27-163.05 <font color=red>n</font> 财富暴增判断被验证，08-28 21:40:11-08-28 21:40:13<font color=blue>Confirmed wealth increase,</font><br>72/378 163.36-165.97 <font color=red>hp</font> 甚至会产生一种我和普通人不一样的幻觉。08-28 21:40:12-08-28 21:40:16<font color=blue>I sometimes even have the illusion that I am different from ordinary people.</font><br>73/378 166.94-169.08 <font color=red>aaa</font> 输了也未必会立刻离开，08-28 21:40:13-08-28 21:40:15<font color=blue>Even if you lose, it doesn't necessarily mean that you will leave immediately.</font><br>74/378 169.38-171.3 <font color=red>lx</font> 因为下一把还在那儿等着呢。08-28 21:40:13-08-28 21:40:42<font color=blue>Because the next one is still there.</font><br>75/378 172.04-173.84 <font color=red>n</font> 这也是赌博最危险的诱惑之一。08-28 21:40:14-08-28 21:40:17<font color=blue>This is also one of the most dangerous temptations in gambling.</font><br>76/378 174.23-176.63 <font color=red>n</font> 他出售的不仅仅是财富的幻想，08-28 21:40:15-08-28 21:40:17<font color=blue>He is not just selling the fantasy of wealth,</font><br>77/378 176.97-178.11 <font color=red>aaa</font> 更是一种戏剧感。08-28 21:40:16-08-28 21:40:17<font color=blue>It also adds a dramatic element.</font><br>78/378 178.8-179.52 <font color=red>hp</font> 带这种人格，08-28 21:40:17-08-28 21:40:19<font color=blue>With this personality,</font><br>79/378 179.76-180.36 <font color=red>n</font> 走进恋爱，08-28 21:40:18-08-28 21:40:18<font color=blue>Entering love,</font><br>80/378 180.8-182.24 <font color=red>aaa</font> 有时候甚至挺迷人的。08-28 21:40:18-08-28 21:40:19<font color=blue>Sometimes it's even quite charming.</font><br>81/378 183.04-184.25 <font color=red>n</font> 敢爱敢花钱，08-28 21:40:19-08-28 21:40:20<font color=blue>Dare to spend money,</font><br>82/378 184.65-185.85 <font color=red>n</font> 敢做别人不敢做的承诺。08-28 21:40:19-08-28 21:40:21<font color=blue>Dare to make promises that others are afraid to.</font><br>83/378 186.54-186.96 <font color=red>hp</font> 一顿饭、08-28 21:40:20-08-28 21:40:22<font color=blue>One meal,</font><br>84/378 187.32-187.86 <font color=red>aaa</font> 一件礼物，08-28 21:40:21-08-28 21:40:21<font color=blue>A gift,</font><br>85/378 188.04-190.54 <font color=red>n</font> 一次旅行都能够迅速升级关系。08-28 21:40:21-08-28 21:40:24<font color=blue>A trip can quickly elevate a relationship.</font><br>86/378 191.6-192.68 <font color=red>n</font> 两个人认识没多久，08-28 21:40:22-08-28 21:40:24<font color=blue>Two people who just met,</font><br>87/378 193.04-194.96 <font color=red>aaa</font> 关系就已经有了电影般的速度，08-28 21:40:23-08-28 21:40:25<font color=blue>The relationship has already reached a speed that is like a movie.</font><br>88/378 195.63-198.63 <font color=red>hp</font> 爱情本身就会暂时放大人的冒险倾向。08-28 21:40:23-08-28 21:40:28<font color=blue>Love itself can temporarily amplify a person's tendency to take risks.</font><br>89/378 199.26-199.86 <font color=red>n</font> 而问题在于，08-28 21:40:24-08-28 21:40:25<font color=blue>The problem lies in,</font><br>90/378 200.26-202.69 <font color=red>n</font> 长期关系需要的恰恰是另一套能力，08-28 21:40:25-08-28 21:40:27<font color=blue>What a long-term relationship needs is another set of skills.</font><br>91/378 203.48-203.72 <font color=red>aaa</font> 稳定、08-28 21:40:25-08-28 21:40:26<font color=blue>Stable,</font><br>92/378 204.31-204.49 <font color=red>n</font> 克制、08-28 21:40:26-08-28 21:40:27<font color=blue>Control,</font><br>93/378 205.11-205.59 <font color=red>xss</font> 可预期，08-28 21:40:27-08-28 21:40:40<font color=blue>Expected,</font><br>94/378 205.95-207.27 <font color=red>aaa</font> 以及对边界的尊重。08-28 21:40:28-08-28 21:40:29<font color=blue>And respect for the boundaries.</font><br>95/378 208.29-209.97 <font color=red>de</font> 一个人怎么赢很容易看到，08-28 21:40:28-08-28 21:41:06<font color=blue>It's easy to see how one person can win,</font><br>96/378 210.6-213.06 <font color=red>n</font> 但一个人怎么输才更值得看。08-28 21:40:29-08-28 21:40:31<font color=blue>But it's more interesting to watch someone lose.</font><br>97/378 214.38-216.12 <font color=red>n</font> 最可怕的习惯叫追损。08-28 21:40:30-08-28 21:40:32<font color=blue>The most terrible habit is to destroy.</font><br>98/378 217.25-219.71 <font color=red>hp</font> 赌博研究里有一个很重要的概念叫追损。08-28 21:40:30-08-28 21:40:35<font color=blue>In gambling research, there is a very important concept called "loss aversion".</font><br>99/378 220.54-222.1 <font color=red>aaa</font> 一个已经输掉十万块钱的人，08-28 21:40:31-08-28 21:40:33<font color=blue>A person who has already lost 100,000 yuan.</font><br>100/378 222.41-226.72 <font color=red>n</font> 可能再像从未进过赌场的人那样看待下一个一万块钱。08-28 21:45:33-08-28 21:45:38<font color=blue>Imagine approaching the next $10,000 as if you've never been to a casino before.</font><br>101/378 227.35-227.89 <font color=red>n</font> 因为这一问，08-28 21:40:33-08-28 21:40:34<font color=blue>Because of this question,</font><br>102/378 228.07-229.21 <font color=red>n</font> 突然背上了一个任务，08-28 21:40:33-08-28 21:40:35<font color=blue>Suddenly, I was assigned a task.</font><br>103/378 229.58-231.08 <font color=red>aaa</font> 把前面那十万赢回来，08-28 21:40:34-08-28 21:40:35<font color=blue>Get back the ten thousand I lost.</font><br>104/378 231.92-233.36 <font color=red>n</font> 于是在下注输了，08-28 21:40:35-08-28 21:40:36<font color=blue>Therefore, I lost the bet.</font><br>105/378 233.94-234.48 <font color=red>hp</font> 继续加码，08-28 21:40:35-08-28 21:40:37<font color=blue>Keep adding,</font><br>106/378 235.11-236.25 <font color=red>n</font> 沉默成本越来越高，08-28 21:40:36-08-28 21:40:37<font color=blue>Silent costs are increasing,</font><br>107/378 236.61-237.69 <font color=red>aaa</font> 离开也越来越难。08-28 21:40:37-08-28 21:40:38<font color=blue>It's getting harder and harder to leave.</font><br>108/378 238.44-238.8 <font color=red>n</font> 到最后，08-28 21:40:37-08-28 21:40:38<font color=blue>Finally,</font><br>109/378 239.1-241.2 <font color=red>n</font> 赌徒自己都回答不了一个简单的问题，08-28 21:40:38-08-28 21:40:40<font color=blue>A gambler couldn't even answer a simple question.</font><br>110/378 241.68-242.82 <font color=red>hp</font> 我到底是在挣钱，08-28 21:40:39-08-28 21:40:42<font color=blue>I'm just trying to make money.</font><br>111/378 243.12-244.14 <font color=red>n</font> 还是在证明自己？08-28 21:40:39-08-28 21:40:41<font color=blue>Am I just trying to prove myself?</font><br>112/378 244.32-244.92 <font color=red>aaa</font> 前面没有错，08-28 21:40:40-08-28 21:40:41<font color=blue>There is no mistake.</font><br>113/378 246.08-248.3 <font color=red>n</font> 亲密关系里面也会出现类似的结构。08-28 21:40:41-08-28 21:40:43<font color=blue>Similar structures also appear in intimate relationships.</font><br>114/378 248.84-250.16 <font color=red>xss</font> 我已经为你花了这么多钱，08-28 21:40:42-08-28 21:41:13<font color=blue>I've spent so much money for you,</font><br>115/378 250.59-251.61 <font color=red>n</font> 我陪了你这么多年，08-28 21:40:42-08-28 21:40:44<font color=blue>I've been with you for so many years,</font><br>116/378 252.09-253.14 <font color=red>aaa</font> 我为你改变了这么多，08-28 21:40:43-08-28 21:40:44<font color=blue>I have changed so much for you,</font><br>117/378 253.61-254.81 <font color=red>hp</font> 我帮你摆平那么多麻烦，08-28 21:40:44-08-28 21:40:47<font color=blue>I've helped you with so many problems,</font><br>118/378 255.54-256.92 <font color=red>lx</font> 这话可能都是真的，08-28 21:40:44-08-28 21:40:54<font color=blue>This might be true.</font><br>119/378 257.43-258.39 <font color=red>n</font> 问题出在后半句，08-28 21:40:45-08-28 21:40:47<font color=blue>The problem lies in the second half of the sentence.</font><br>120/378 258.85-260.17 <font color=red>n</font> 所以你不能离开我。08-28 21:40:45-08-28 21:40:47<font color=blue>Therefore, you cannot leave me.</font><br>121/378 261.28-262.18 <font color=red>aaa</font> 这一步迈的很小，08-28 21:40:46-08-28 21:40:47<font color=blue>This is a small step,</font><br>122/378 262.75-264.49 <font color=red>hp</font> 却彻底改变了关系的性质，08-28 21:40:48-08-28 21:40:51<font color=blue>However, it completely changed the nature of the relationship.</font><br>123/378 265.5-269.09 <font color=red>aaa</font> 付出开始产生债权感礼物开始寻找回报。08-28 21:40:48-08-28 21:40:51<font color=blue>The act of giving begins to create a sense of obligation, while receiving begins to seek rewards.</font><br>124/378 269.7-271.38 <font color=red>n</font> 过去的申请被重新估置，08-28 21:40:49-08-28 21:40:51<font color=blue>Past applications have been re-evaluated.</font><br>125/378 272.16-273.72 <font color=red>n</font> 转账记录也有了新的含义。08-28 21:40:49-08-28 21:40:51<font color=blue>The transaction records also have new meanings.</font><br>126/378 274.48-277.06 <font color=red>n</font> 那些当初谁也没觉得需要计算的东西，08-28 21:40:52-08-28 21:40:53<font color=blue>Those things that no one thought needed to be calculated,</font><br>127/378 277.45-277.99 <font color=red>aaa</font> 分手之后，08-28 21:40:52-08-28 21:40:53<font color=blue>After breaking up,</font><br>128/378 278.11-279.85 <font color=red>hp</font> 突然一笔一笔的进入了账本。08-28 21:40:53-08-28 21:40:56<font color=blue>Suddenly, the entries started appearing in the ledger.</font><br>129/378 280.87-283.39 <font color=red>n</font> 孙玉成那篇传闻之所以引起这么大的讨论，08-28 21:40:53-08-28 21:40:57<font color=blue>The article by Sun Yecheng caused a lot of discussion because it was rumored to be...</font><br>130/378 283.76-284.87 <font color=red>aaa</font> 也跟这种结构有关。08-28 21:40:54-08-28 21:40:56<font color=blue>It's also related to this structure.</font><br>131/378 285.69-286.23 <font color=red>n</font> 巨额金钱、08-28 21:40:55-08-28 21:40:56<font color=blue>Huge money,</font><br>132/378 286.73-287.27 <font color=red>de</font> 恋爱关系、08-28 21:40:55-08-28 21:41:04<font color=blue>Romantic relationship,</font><br>133/378 287.75-288.29 <font color=red>aaa</font> 赌博叙事，08-28 21:40:57-08-28 21:40:58<font color=blue>Gambling narrative,</font><br>134/378 288.74-290.48 <font color=red>n</font> 再加上后来的财产纠纷，08-28 21:40:57-08-28 21:40:58<font color=blue>And later property disputes,</font><br>135/378 290.93-292.58 <font color=red>hp</font> 很容易让公众产生一种冲动，08-28 21:40:58-08-28 21:41:02<font color=blue>It's easy to make the public feel a sense of urgency,</font><br>136/378 293.09-294.71 <font color=red>n</font> 要把每一笔钱重新解释，08-28 21:40:59-08-28 21:41:00<font color=blue>Reinterpret each transaction,</font><br>137/378 295.06-297.16 <font color=red>bg</font> 最后算出到底谁欠了谁。08-28 21:40:59-08-28 21:41:33<font color=blue>Finally, determine who owes whom.</font><br>138/378 298.15-300.07 <font color=red>aaa</font> 可亲密关系最麻烦的地方就在于此，08-28 21:41:00-08-28 21:41:02<font color=blue>The most troublesome thing about intimate relationships is this.</font><br>139/378 300.6-301.8 <font color=red>n</font> 很多东西在发生的时候，08-28 21:41:01-08-28 21:41:02<font color=blue>Many things are happening,</font><br>140/378 302.04-304.74 <font color=red>n</font> 并没有标价一次陪伴值多少钱，08-28 21:41:01-08-28 21:41:04<font color=blue>There is no price tag for the cost of a single visit.</font><br>141/378 305.33-307.31 <font color=red>aaa</font> 为一个人改变生活计划值多少钱？08-28 21:41:02-08-28 21:41:04<font color=blue>How much does it cost to change someone's life plan?</font><br>142/378 307.75-310.27 <font color=red>n</font> 恋爱中的赠与和借贷到底怎么区分？08-28 21:41:03-08-28 21:41:05<font color=blue>How to distinguish between gifts and loans in love?</font><br>143/378 310.91-312.17 <font color=red>hp</font> 当初心甘情愿的付出，08-28 21:41:04-08-28 21:41:07<font color=blue>Initially, I willingly put in the effort.</font><br>144/378 312.46-313.6 <font color=red>n</font> 在关系破裂之后，08-28 21:41:05-08-28 21:41:06<font color=blue>After the relationship broke down,</font><br>145/378 313.84-316.36 <font color=red>aaa</font> 还能不能按照今天的心情重新定价？08-28 21:41:05-08-28 21:41:07<font color=blue>Can I re-price according to today's mood?</font><br>146/378 317.19-320.22 <font color=red>de</font> 其中涉及法律的部分当然应该交给法院，08-28 21:41:06-08-28 21:41:49<font color=blue>The legal aspects should, of course, be handled by the courts.</font><br>147/378 320.74-324.9 <font color=red>n</font> 剩下的考验的是一个人如何理解自己曾经付出的那些东西。08-28 21:41:07-08-28 21:41:10<font color=blue>The remaining challenge is how a person understands the things they have put in.</font><br>148/378 325.56-326.88 <font color=red>n</font> 爱情一旦变成账本，08-28 21:41:07-08-28 21:41:09<font color=blue>Love once turned into an account book,</font><br>149/378 327.21-328.83 <font color=red>de</font> 两个人都会变得贫穷。08-28 21:41:08-08-28 21:41:30<font color=blue>Both will become poor.</font><br>150/378 330.04-332.2 <font color=red>hp</font> 弗洛伊德在超越快乐原则里面，08-28 21:41:09-08-28 21:41:12<font color=blue>In Freud's Beyond the Pleasure Principle,</font><br>151/378 332.32-335.2 <font color=red>aaa</font> 讨论过一种叫做重复强迫的概念。08-28 21:41:09-08-28 21:41:11<font color=blue>We have discussed the concept of repetition compulsion.</font><br>152/378 335.62-336.64 <font color=red>n</font> repetition compulsion,08-28 21:41:10-08-28 21:41:11<font color=blue>compulsion to repeat,</font><br>153/378 337.54-339.52 <font color=red>n</font> 人并不总是主动避开痛苦，08-28 21:41:11-08-28 21:41:13<font color=blue>People are not always proactive in avoiding pain.</font><br>154/378 339.93-343.17 <font color=red>aaa</font> 有时候反而会不断的回到同一个失败的结构里。08-28 21:41:11-08-28 21:41:14<font color=blue>Sometimes, it can lead to repeatedly falling back into the same failed structure.</font><br>155/378 343.54-345.399 <font color=red>n</font> 希望下一次能够有不同的结局。08-28 21:41:12-08-28 21:41:14<font color=blue>I hope that next time there will be a different ending.</font><br>156/378 346.09-347.71 <font color=red>hp</font> 赌徒对这种感觉太熟悉了，08-28 21:41:13-08-28 21:41:16<font color=blue>Gamblers are very familiar with this feeling.</font><br>157/378 348.12-349.44 <font color=red>n</font> 下一把再下一把，08-28 21:41:13-08-28 21:41:15<font color=blue>Another one, another one.</font><br>158/378 349.75-349.99 <font color=red>xss</font> 终于，08-28 21:41:14-08-28 21:41:26<font color=blue>Finally,</font><br>159/378 350.11-351.49 <font color=red>aaa</font> 百能把前面的故事改写，08-28 21:41:15-08-28 21:41:16<font color=blue>Rewrite the previous story,</font><br>160/378 352.25-354.35 <font color=red>n</font> 思念也容易让人产生类似的执念。08-28 21:41:15-08-28 21:41:18<font color=blue>Nostalgia can also lead to similar obsessions.</font><br>161/378 355.1-355.82 <font color=red>n</font> 再解释一次，08-28 21:41:16-08-28 21:41:18<font color=blue>Let me explain again,</font><br>162/378 356.13-356.76 <font color=red>aaa</font> 再证明一次，08-28 21:41:17-08-28 21:41:18<font color=blue>Once again,</font><br>163/378 357.11-357.92 <font color=red>hp</font> 再发一篇文章。08-28 21:41:17-08-28 21:41:20<font color=blue>Here's another article.</font><br>164/378 358.22-359.78 <font color=red>aaa</font> 再甩出一张聊天记录，08-28 21:41:18-08-28 21:41:19<font color=blue>Here's another chat log,</font><br>165/378 360.18-361.2 <font color=red>n</font> 就算对方没有回头，08-28 21:41:19-08-28 21:41:21<font color=blue>Even if the other person doesn't turn back,</font><br>166/378 361.53-363.72 <font color=red>n</font> 至少也要让旁观者觉得我没有错。08-28 21:41:19-08-28 21:41:22<font color=blue>At least make the onlookers think I'm not wrong.</font><br>167/378 364.59-365.13 <font color=red>aaa</font> 到了这一步，08-28 21:41:20-08-28 21:41:21<font color=blue>At this point,</font><br>168/378 365.52-367.92 <font color=red>hp</font> 人争夺他已经很难说还是爱情了。08-28 21:41:21-08-28 21:41:26<font color=blue>It's hard to say whether it's still love when people are competing for him.</font><br>169/378 368.3-370.16 <font color=red>aaa</font> 他们争夺一件更抽象的东西，08-28 21:41:22-08-28 21:41:23<font color=blue>They are vying for something more abstract,</font><br>170/378 370.57-372.07 <font color=red>n</font> 谁有资格定义这段关系？08-28 21:41:22-08-28 21:41:24<font color=blue>Who is qualified to define this relationship?</font><br>171/378 373.14-376.19 <font color=red>n</font> 这也是今天小中文文化垂直的警惕的地方。08-28 21:41:23-08-28 21:41:27<font color=blue>This is also a place where we need to be vigilant about vertical cultural trends in Chinese today.</font><br>172/378 376.66-377.86 <font color=red>aaa</font> 一段持续几年的关系，08-28 21:41:24-08-28 21:41:25<font color=blue>A relationship that lasted for several years,</font><br>173/378 378.28-379.9 <font color=red>n</font> 包含着几万个小时的生活，08-28 21:41:25-08-28 21:41:27<font color=blue>Contains several thousand hours of life,</font><br>174/378 380.39-385.16 <font color=red>aaa</font> 而一篇几千字的文章可以重新选择起点高潮和结局。08-28 21:41:26-08-28 21:41:29<font color=blue>And an article of several thousand words can be rewritten with a new starting point, climax and ending.</font><br>175/378 386.05-386.89 <font color=red>hp</font> 哪些细节留下，08-28 21:41:27-08-28 21:41:29<font color=blue>What details to keep,</font><br>176/378 387.13-387.73 <font color=red>n</font> 哪些审阅，08-28 21:41:28-08-28 21:41:28<font color=blue>Which reviews,</font><br>177/378 388.21-389.5 <font color=red>n</font> 谁先伤害谁谁。08-28 21:41:28-08-28 21:41:30<font color=blue>Who hurt whom first.</font><br>178/378 389.68-391.14 <font color=red>xss</font> 后来反击一笔钱，08-28 21:41:29-08-28 21:42:03<font color=blue>Later, I retaliated with a small amount of money.</font><br>179/378 391.26-391.98 <font color=red>lx</font> 到底是礼物、08-28 21:41:30-08-28 21:41:38<font color=blue>Is a gift,</font><br>180/378 392.56-392.74 <font color=red>n</font> 借款、08-28 21:41:31-08-28 21:41:32<font color=blue>Loan,</font><br>181/378 393.37-393.61 <font color=red>aaa</font> 补偿，08-28 21:41:32-08-28 21:41:33<font color=blue>Compensation,</font><br>182/378 393.85-396.54 <font color=red>hp</font> 还是投资叙述顺序稍微变化一下，08-28 21:41:33-08-28 21:41:36<font color=blue>Change the order of investment narrative slightly,</font><br>183/378 396.9-398.4 <font color=red>n</font> 人物形象就可能完全不同。08-28 21:41:34-08-28 21:41:36<font color=blue>The character's image can be completely different.</font><br>184/378 399.36-400.98 <font color=red>de</font> 戈夫曼研究自我呈现时，08-28 21:41:34-08-28 21:42:01<font color=blue>When Goffman studied self-presentation,</font><br>185/378 401.33-401.81 <font color=red>n</font> 早就发现，08-28 21:41:35-08-28 21:41:36<font color=blue>I have already discovered,</font><br>186/378 402.53-404.03 <font color=red>bg</font> 人一旦进入公共场合，08-28 21:41:36-08-28 21:42:04<font color=blue>Once a person enters public places,</font><br>187/378 404.36-406.52 <font color=red>aaa</font> 就会主动管理别人对自己的看法。08-28 21:41:37-08-28 21:41:38<font color=blue>They proactively manage how others perceive them.</font><br>188/378 407.53-410.74 <font color=red>n</font> 感情破裂之后的公开叙事也很难逃脱这种机制。08-28 21:41:37-08-28 21:41:40<font color=blue>After a breakup, the public narrative is also difficult to escape this mechanism.</font><br>189/378 411.41-413.209 <font color=red>hp</font> 所以面对孙以晨的文章也好，08-28 21:41:38-08-28 21:41:42<font color=blue>Therefore, when facing Sun Yichen's article,</font><br>190/378 413.69-414.65 <font color=red>n</font> 紧甜的回应也好，08-28 21:41:39-08-28 21:41:40<font color=blue>A sweet reply,</font><br>191/378 415.01-416.69 <font color=red>lx</font> 我都愿意先停在这儿。08-28 21:41:40-08-28 21:42:11<font color=blue>I'd rather just stop here.</font><br>192/378 417.29-417.77 <font color=red>aaa</font> 可以阅读，08-28 21:41:40-08-28 21:41:41<font color=blue>Can be read,</font><br>193/378 418.2-418.62 <font color=red>n</font> 可以分析，08-28 21:41:41-08-28 21:41:42<font color=blue>Can be analyzed,</font><br>194/378 418.9-421.52 <font color=red>n</font> 也可以怀疑在司法没有完成认定之前，08-28 21:41:42-08-28 21:41:45<font color=blue>It is also possible to suspect that before the judiciary has completed its determination,</font><br>195/378 421.88-424.1 <font color=red>aaa</font> 没有必要急着替任何一方下判断，08-28 21:41:42-08-28 21:41:45<font color=blue>It's not necessary to rush into judgment for either side.</font><br>196/378 425.18-427.76 <font color=red>n</font> 不要把拯救一个成年人误认作爱。08-28 21:41:43-08-28 21:41:46<font color=blue>Don't mistake saving a grown-up for love.</font><br>197/378 429.08-429.5 <font color=red>hp</font> 近些年，08-28 21:41:44-08-28 21:41:46<font color=blue>In recent years,</font><br>198/378 429.8-432.98 <font color=red>aaa</font> 赌博研究越来越关注赌博伤害这个概念。08-28 21:41:45-08-28 21:41:48<font color=blue>The study of gambling has increasingly focused on the concept of gambling harm.</font><br>199/378 433.7-434.36 <font color=red>n</font> 原因很简单，08-28 21:41:46-08-28 21:41:47<font color=blue>The reason is simple,</font><br>200/378 434.66-435.98 <font color=red>n</font> 一个人的赌博问题很少，08-28 21:41:47-08-28 21:41:49<font color=blue>A person's gambling problem is rare.</font><br>201/378 436.1-437.12 <font color=red>hp</font> 只停留在赌场里。08-28 21:41:47-08-28 21:41:50<font color=blue>Stay only in the casino.</font><br>202/378 438.02-438.8 <font color=red>n</font> 债务会带回家，08-28 21:41:48-08-28 21:41:49<font color=blue>Debt will come home.</font><br>203/378 439.22-440.0 <font color=red>aaa</font> 谎言会带回家，08-28 21:41:49-08-28 21:41:50<font color=blue>Lies will bring you home.</font><br>204/378 440.36-441.56 <font color=red>de</font> 情绪会带回家，08-28 21:41:50-08-28 21:42:23<font color=blue>Emotions can be brought home,</font><br>205/378 441.92-443.12 <font color=red>n</font> 为了钱上一次的窟窿，08-28 21:41:51-08-28 21:41:52<font color=blue>To cover the hole,</font><br>206/378 443.24-445.34 <font color=red>hp</font> 而产生的新的风险也会带回家。08-28 21:41:52-08-28 21:41:55<font color=blue>And the new risks will also be brought home.</font><br>207/378 446.06-448.7 <font color=red>aaa</font> 有研究把赌博伤害分成了好几个维度，08-28 21:41:52-08-28 21:41:54<font color=blue>Some studies have divided gambling harm into several dimensions.</font><br>208/378 449.0-451.59 <font color=red>n</font> 其中一个重要的部分就是关系伤害，08-28 21:41:53-08-28 21:41:55<font color=blue>One of the important parts is relational harm,</font><br>209/378 452.55-453.09 <font color=red>n</font> 信任崩塌。08-28 21:41:54-08-28 21:41:55<font color=blue>Trust is broken.</font><br>210/378 453.57-455.19 <font color=red>aaa</font> 长期冲突角色错位，08-28 21:41:55-08-28 21:41:57<font color=blue>Long-term conflict, role misplacement.</font><br>211/378 455.55-457.05 <font color=red>n</font> 最后关系彻底破裂。08-28 21:46:57-08-28 21:46:58<font color=blue>The relationship finally broke down.</font><br>212/378 457.89-460.41 <font color=red>hp</font> 现实中有一种伴侣关系特别让人疲倦，08-28 21:41:56-08-28 21:42:01<font color=blue>In real life, there is a type of relationship that can be particularly draining.</font><br>213/378 461.13-462.93 <font color=red>n</font> 一个人活成了另一个人的管理员。08-28 21:41:57-08-28 21:41:59<font color=blue>One person became the administrator of another.</font><br>214/378 463.83-467.13 <font color=red>n</font> 查银行账户管信用卡询问去了哪里，08-28 21:41:58-08-28 21:42:01<font color=blue>Check bank account, inquire about credit card, and ask where it went.</font><br>215/378 467.85-468.33 <font color=red>aaa</font> 阻止借贷，08-28 21:41:59-08-28 21:41:59<font color=blue>Prevent borrowing,</font><br>216/378 468.63-469.77 <font color=red>n</font> 追问有没有在下注。08-28 21:42:00-08-28 21:42:01<font color=blue>Ask if you are betting.</font><br>217/378 470.25-471.03 <font color=red>aaa</font> 刚开始的时候，08-28 21:42:01-08-28 21:42:01<font color=blue>At the beginning,</font><br>218/378 471.21-473.25 <font color=red>de</font> 这些行为可能完全是出于爱，08-28 21:42:01-08-28 21:42:30<font color=blue>These actions may be entirely out of love.</font><br>219/378 474.03-476.07 <font color=red>hp</font> 慢慢的恋人变成了监护人，08-28 21:42:02-08-28 21:42:05<font color=blue>Slowly, the lover became a guardian.</font><br>220/378 476.49-479.61 <font color=red>n</font> 两个人之间那种平等相互对望的目光就消失。08-28 21:42:03-08-28 21:42:05<font color=blue>The equal, mutual gaze between two people disappears.</font><br>221/378 480.67-483.43 <font color=red>aaa</font> 所以我一直觉得恋爱有一条很朴素的底线，08-28 21:42:04-08-28 21:42:06<font color=blue>I always felt that there was a very simple and basic line in love,</font><br>222/378 484.16-488.12 <font color=red>n</font> 不要和一个需要你长期替他管理底线的人生活在一起。08-28 21:42:04-08-28 21:42:07<font color=blue>Don't live with someone who needs you to manage their boundaries for them.</font><br>223/378 489.04-490.12 <font color=red>xss</font> 赌博只是其中的一种，08-28 21:42:05-08-28 21:42:30<font color=blue>Gambling is just one of them.</font><br>224/378 490.72-491.32 <font color=red>bg</font> 反复撒谎、08-28 21:42:06-08-28 21:42:28<font color=blue>Repeatedly lying,</font><br>225/378 491.68-492.22 <font color=red>n</font> 失控消费、08-28 21:42:07-08-28 21:42:08<font color=blue>Uncontrolled consumption,</font><br>226/378 492.81-494.34 <font color=red>hp</font> 暴力成瘾不断突破。08-28 21:42:07-08-28 21:42:10<font color=blue>Violence addiction is constantly breaking through.</font><br>227/378 494.52-497.01 <font color=red>aaa</font> 双方已经约定好的边界都有同样的问题，08-28 21:42:08-08-28 21:42:10<font color=blue>Both of the agreed-upon boundaries have similar problems.</font><br>228/378 497.97-499.17 <font color=red>n</font> 成年人当然可以犯错，08-28 21:42:09-08-28 21:42:10<font color=blue>Adults can certainly make mistakes.</font><br>229/378 499.47-501.51 <font color=red>n</font> 也可以在人生某个阶段陷入困境，08-28 21:42:09-08-28 21:42:12<font color=blue>Can also be in a difficult situation at some point in life,</font><br>230/378 502.06-503.5 <font color=red>aaa</font> 伴侣可以陪伴帮助，08-28 21:42:10-08-28 21:42:12<font color=blue>A partner can provide companionship and support.</font><br>231/378 503.68-505.84 <font color=red>hp</font> 甚至一起熬过几年艰难的日子。08-28 21:42:11-08-28 21:42:15<font color=blue>Even together, we endured several difficult years.</font><br>232/378 506.53-509.17 <font color=red>n</font> 但一个成年人最终还是要为自己的边界负责，08-28 21:42:12-08-28 21:42:15<font color=blue>But an adult ultimately has to be responsible for their own boundaries.</font><br>233/378 509.69-513.18 <font color=red>lx</font> 否则所谓的爱情很容易变成一个人不断制造问题，08-28 21:42:13-08-28 21:42:33<font color=blue>Otherwise, what is called love easily turns into a person constantly creating problems.</font><br>234/378 513.59-514.91 <font color=red>n</font> 另一个人不断收拾惨局，08-28 21:42:13-08-28 21:42:15<font color=blue>Another person keeps picking up the pieces.</font><br>235/378 515.67-516.15 <font color=red>aaa</font> 久而久之，08-28 21:42:14-08-28 21:42:15<font color=blue>Eventually,</font><br>236/378 516.52-518.2 <font color=red>n</font> 爱就被消耗成了管理。08-28 21:42:15-08-28 21:42:17<font color=blue>Love has been consumed by management.</font><br>237/378 519.14-520.16 <font color=red>hp</font> 钱可以共同拥有，08-28 21:42:16-08-28 21:42:18<font color=blue>Money can be shared.</font><br>238/378 520.28-521.6 <font color=red>aaa</font> 但人不能被拥有。08-28 21:42:17-08-28 21:42:18<font color=blue>But people cannot be owned.</font><br>239/378 522.54-524.64 <font color=red>n</font> 亲密关系里最容易产生的误会之一，08-28 21:42:17-08-28 21:42:21<font color=blue>One of the most common misunderstandings in close relationships is...</font><br>240/378 524.92-527.29 <font color=red>n</font> 就是把付出慢慢理解成了所有权。08-28 21:42:18-08-28 21:42:21<font color=blue>It's about gradually understanding that what you put in is all yours.</font><br>241/378 528.03-529.11 <font color=red>aaa</font> 我为你花了那么多钱，08-28 21:42:19-08-28 21:42:20<font color=blue>I spent so much money on you,</font><br>242/378 529.39-532.17 <font color=red>hp</font> 我把最好的几年都给了你我为你得罪了别人，08-28 21:42:20-08-28 21:42:24<font color=blue>I gave you the best years of my life, I offended others for you.</font><br>243/378 532.52-533.69 <font color=red>aaa</font> 我甚至改变了自己的人生。08-28 21:42:21-08-28 21:42:22<font color=blue>I even changed my life.</font><br>244/378 534.62-536.06 <font color=red>n</font> 这些付出当然都有重量，08-28 21:42:22-08-28 21:42:24<font color=blue>These sacrifices certainly have their weight.</font><br>245/378 536.42-538.339 <font color=red>n</font> 但一个让人难受的事实依然存在。08-28 21:42:22-08-28 21:42:25<font color=blue>But there is still one fact that makes people feel uncomfortable.</font><br>246/378 538.89-539.97 <font color=red>aaa</font> 对方仍然可以离开，08-28 21:42:23-08-28 21:42:24<font color=blue>The other party can still leave.</font><br>247/378 540.92-541.94 <font color=red>de</font> 这是爱情最残酷，08-28 21:42:24-08-28 21:42:45<font color=blue>This is the most cruel love,</font><br>248/378 542.35-543.7 <font color=red>n</font> 也是最基本的一个条件。08-28 21:42:24-08-28 21:42:26<font color=blue>This is also a basic condition.</font><br>249/378 544.49-546.17 <font color=red>hp</font> 如果一个人接受你的礼物之后，08-28 21:42:25-08-28 21:42:28<font color=blue>If someone accepts your gift,</font><br>250/378 546.35-547.85 <font color=red>aaa</font> 就失去了离开的资格，08-28 21:42:26-08-28 21:42:27<font color=blue>Lost the right to leave.</font><br>251/378 548.38-550.66 <font color=red>n</font> 那份礼物迟早会变成一纸合同。08-28 21:42:27-08-28 21:42:29<font color=blue>That gift will eventually turn into a contract.</font><br>252/378 551.52-553.5 <font color=red>n</font> 如果一个人因为被你爱了很久，08-28 21:42:27-08-28 21:42:30<font color=blue>If someone has loved you for a long time,</font><br>253/378 553.8-555.06 <font color=red>aaa</font> 就必须继续爱你，08-28 21:42:28-08-28 21:42:29<font color=blue>I must continue to love you.</font><br>254/378 555.5-558.57 <font color=red>hp</font> 那爱情也就失去了他最核心的东西自愿。08-28 21:42:29-08-28 21:42:33<font color=blue>Then the love lost its most essential element: volition.</font><br>255/378 560.08-562.48 <font color=red>bg</font> 所以判断一个人是否适合长期相处，08-28 21:42:30-08-28 21:43:18<font color=blue>Therefore, to determine whether someone is suitable for long-term relationships,</font><br>256/378 562.81-565.37 <font color=red>n</font> 我觉得可以观察一个很少被讨论的指标，08-28 21:42:30-08-28 21:42:33<font color=blue>I think it's worth observing a less discussed indicator,</font><br>257/378 566.04-567.72 <font color=red>aaa</font> 他允不允许别人拒绝。08-28 21:42:31-08-28 21:42:32<font color=blue>He doesn't allow others to refuse.</font><br>258/378 567.84-570.18 <font color=red>n</font> 他求爱被拒绝之后怎么办？08-28 21:42:32-08-28 21:42:34<font color=blue>What should I do after being rejected in love?</font><br>259/378 570.62-571.94 <font color=red>xss</font> 意见被否定之后怎么办？08-28 21:42:32-08-28 21:43:00<font color=blue>What to do after an opinion is rejected?</font><br>260/378 572.5-573.88 <font color=red>de</font> 投资失败之后怎么办？08-28 21:42:33-08-28 21:43:01<font color=blue>What to do after an investment failure?</font><br>261/378 574.38-575.28 <font color=red>hp</font> 分手之后怎么办？08-28 21:47:35-08-28 21:47:38<font color=blue>What to do after a breakup?</font><br>262/378 575.93-577.9 <font color=red>aaa</font> 很多人在瞬境里都很好相处，08-28 21:42:34-08-28 21:42:37<font color=blue>Many people are very easy to get along with in the transient realm.</font><br>263/378 578.42-578.96 <font color=red>n</font> 资源充足，08-28 21:42:36-08-28 21:42:37<font color=blue>Resources are abundant,</font><br>264/378 579.42-579.9 <font color=red>lx</font> 情感稳定，08-28 21:42:37-08-28 21:42:51<font color=blue>Emotional stability,</font><br>265/378 580.31-581.15 <font color=red>n</font> 事业成功的时候，08-28 21:42:37-08-28 21:42:39<font color=blue>When you are successful in your career,</font><br>266/378 581.57-582.66 <font color=red>n</font> 慷慨并不困难，08-28 21:42:38-08-28 21:42:39<font color=blue>Generosity is not difficult.</font><br>267/378 583.42-583.96 <font color=red>aaa</font> 失去之后，08-28 21:42:39-08-28 21:42:39<font color=blue>After losing,</font><br>268/378 584.32-586.63 <font color=red>n</font> 一个人的边界才会慢慢显露出来。08-28 21:42:40-08-28 21:42:42<font color=blue>A person's boundaries will only become clear over time.</font><br>269/378 587.32-589.42 <font color=red>aaa</font> 分手之后还有一笔不能追讨的债。08-28 21:42:40-08-28 21:42:42<font color=blue>Unpaid debts remain after the breakup.</font><br>270/378 590.35-592.33 <font color=red>n</font> 亲密关系里还有一种非常特殊的财产，08-28 21:42:41-08-28 21:42:43<font color=blue>In intimate relationships, there is a very special property.</font><br>271/378 592.92-593.52 <font color=red>hp</font> 他没有价格，08-28 21:42:42-08-28 21:42:44<font color=blue>He has no price.</font><br>272/378 594.51-595.05 <font color=red>aaa</font> 对方的身体、08-28 21:42:43-08-28 21:42:44<font color=blue>The other person's body,</font><br>273/378 595.68-596.22 <font color=red>n</font> 家庭秘密、08-28 21:42:43-08-28 21:42:44<font color=blue>Family secrets,</font><br>274/378 596.77-598.01 <font color=red>n</font> 童年经历疾病。08-28 21:42:44-08-28 21:42:45<font color=blue>Childhood experiences with illness.</font><br>275/378 598.43-599.81 <font color=red>aaa</font> 两个人关起门说过的话，08-28 21:42:45-08-28 21:42:46<font color=blue>Two people talked behind closed doors.</font><br>276/378 600.29-602.42 <font color=red>n</font> 最狼狈的时候留下的照片和信息。08-28 21:42:46-08-28 21:42:47<font color=blue>Photos and information left behind during the most difficult times.</font><br>277/378 603.21-604.83 <font color=red>hp</font> 这些东西之所以进入你的生活，08-28 21:42:46-08-28 21:42:49<font color=blue>These things have entered your life,</font><br>278/378 605.18-606.5 <font color=red>de</font> 是因为当时有信任。08-28 21:42:47-08-28 21:43:11<font color=blue>Because there was trust at that time.</font><br>279/378 606.62-608.34 <font color=red>n</font> 在关系结束之后，08-28 21:42:48-08-28 21:42:49<font color=blue>After the relationship ends,</font><br>280/378 608.7-610.2 <font color=red>aaa</font> 法律当然会处理财产、08-28 21:42:48-08-28 21:42:50<font color=blue>The law will certainly deal with property,</font><br>281/378 610.44-612.24 <font color=red>n</font> 债务以及可能存在的违法行为。08-28 21:42:49-08-28 21:42:51<font color=blue>Debt and potential illegal activities.</font><br>282/378 612.6-615.78 <font color=red>n</font> 他还有大量的内容落在法律难以完全覆盖的地方。08-28 21:42:50-08-28 21:42:53<font color=blue>There is a large amount of content that falls outside the scope of legal coverage.</font><br>283/378 616.84-619.6 <font color=red>hp</font> 一个人曾经把自己最脆弱的一面交到你手上，08-28 21:42:50-08-28 21:42:54<font color=blue>Someone once entrusted you with their most vulnerable side,</font><br>284/378 620.29-621.55 <font color=red>aaa</font> 后来你们不再相爱了，08-28 21:42:51-08-28 21:42:53<font color=blue>Eventually, you two stopped loving each other.</font><br>285/378 621.96-623.04 <font color=red>n</font> 你怎么处理这些东西？08-28 21:42:52-08-28 21:42:54<font color=blue>How do you deal with these things?</font><br>286/378 623.5-626.12 <font color=red>lx</font> 我觉得这是爱情最后的一场人格考试。08-28 21:42:53-08-28 21:43:23<font color=blue>I think this is the final test of love.</font><br>287/378 626.72-629.54 <font color=red>aaa</font> 今天的互联网特别容易把私人材料武器化，08-28 21:42:53-08-28 21:42:57<font color=blue>Today, the internet is particularly prone to weaponizing private materials.</font><br>288/378 630.24-631.14 <font color=red>n</font> 一张聊天截图，08-28 21:42:54-08-28 21:42:55<font color=blue>A screenshot of a chat,</font><br>289/378 631.5-632.82 <font color=red>n</font> 一段录音一张照片，08-28 21:42:55-08-28 21:42:56<font color=blue>A recording and a photo,</font><br>290/378 633.27-634.53 <font color=red>hp</font> 只要扔进公共娱乐场，08-28 21:42:55-08-28 21:42:59<font color=blue>As long as you throw into the public playground,</font><br>291/378 634.71-636.87 <font color=red>n</font> 就能让另一个人很多年都翻不了身。08-28 21:42:56-08-28 21:43:00<font color=blue>This can make it difficult for others to recover from their situation in the long run.</font><br>292/378 637.8-637.98 <font color=red>n</font> 当然，08-28 21:42:57-08-28 21:42:58<font color=blue>Of course,</font><br>293/378 638.22-639.96 <font color=red>aaa</font> 有些公开行为具有正当性，08-28 21:42:57-08-28 21:43:00<font color=blue>Some public actions have legitimacy,</font><br>294/378 640.37-642.349 <font color=red>n</font> 比如涉及公共利益违法行为，08-28 21:42:59-08-28 21:43:02<font color=blue>For example, involving illegal acts that harm the public interest.</font><br>295/378 642.47-644.33 <font color=red>hp</font> 或者为了保护潜在的受害者。08-28 21:42:59-08-28 21:43:02<font color=blue>Or to protect potential victims.</font><br>296/378 645.1-649.3 <font color=red>n</font> 但私人关系中的报复性曝光门槛应该非常的高，08-28 21:43:01-08-28 21:43:04<font color=blue>However, the threshold for retaliatory exposure in private relationships should be very high.</font><br>297/378 649.91-652.13 <font color=red>xss</font> 否则恋爱会催生一个很可怕的结果。08-28 21:43:01-08-28 21:43:34<font color=blue>Otherwise, love will lead to a terrible outcome.</font><br>298/378 652.77-653.31 <font color=red>aaa</font> 爱得越深，08-28 21:43:02-08-28 21:43:04<font color=blue>The deeper you love,</font><br>299/378 653.82-654.96 <font color=red>de</font> 手里的人质越多，08-28 21:43:02-08-28 21:43:31<font color=blue>The more hostages there are,</font><br>300/378 655.84-657.34 <font color=red>n</font> 如果每一段关系结束之后，08-28 21:43:03-08-28 21:43:04<font color=blue>If every relationship ends,</font><br>301/378 657.81-660.93 <font color=red>hp</font> 双方都可以把过去的脆弱拿出来结算，08-28 21:43:04-08-28 21:43:08<font color=blue>Both parties can bring up past vulnerabilities to settle the score.</font><br>302/378 661.45-663.91 <font color=red>n</font> 那人与人之间最终只能学会一件事，08-28 21:43:04-08-28 21:43:08<font color=blue>The only thing people can learn is how to live with each other.</font><br>303/378 664.71-667.47 <font color=red>n</font> 不要信任玉石俱焚。08-28 21:43:05-08-28 21:43:08<font color=blue>Don't trust the jade that is about to be burned.</font><br>304/378 667.59-668.97 <font color=red>aaa</font> 是赌徒最后的一把，08-28 21:43:06-08-28 21:43:10<font color=blue>It's the gambler's last resort.</font><br>305/378 669.88-671.44 <font color=red>hp</font> 所以不要和赌徒谈恋爱，08-28 21:43:08-08-28 21:43:11<font color=blue>So don't date gamblers.</font><br>306/378 671.83-673.51 <font color=red>n</font> 并不只是在赌场里有效。08-28 21:43:09-08-28 21:43:11<font color=blue>It's not just effective in casinos.</font><br>307/378 674.19-677.43 <font color=red>n</font> 我关注的是一种当下恋爱关系中最常见的一种思维。08-28 21:43:09-08-28 21:43:13<font color=blue>I am focusing on one of the most common ways of thinking about romantic relationships that are prevalent today.</font><br>308/378 678.44-679.46 <font color=red>aaa</font> 已经投注了这么多，08-28 21:43:10-08-28 21:43:15<font color=blue>I've already invested so much,</font><br>309/378 679.82-680.18 <font color=red>de</font> 不能停，08-28 21:43:11-08-28 21:43:35<font color=blue>Can't stop,</font><br>310/378 680.79-681.69 <font color=red>aaa</font> 已经输到了这里，08-28 21:48:14-08-28 21:48:15<font color=blue>I've already lost here,</font><br>311/378 682.24-682.6 <font color=red>hp</font> 不能听。08-28 21:43:13-08-28 21:43:15<font color=blue>Can't hear.</font><br>312/378 683.19-683.97 <font color=red>n</font> 既然我得不到，08-28 21:43:13-08-28 21:43:15<font color=blue>Since I can't get it,</font><br>313/378 684.27-684.33 <font color=red>n</font> 你，08-28 21:43:14-08-28 21:43:15<font color=blue>You,</font><br>314/378 684.45-685.59 <font color=red>aaa</font> 也别想全身而退。08-28 21:43:15-08-28 21:43:21<font color=blue>Don't think you can get away with it.</font><br>315/378 686.48-689.73 <font color=red>n</font> 赌途最难做到的往往是承认沉默成本，08-28 21:43:16-08-28 21:43:20<font color=blue>The most difficult thing to achieve in gambling is admitting the cost of silence.</font><br>316/378 690.68-692.54 <font color=red>hp</font> 普通人输了慢慢接除损失，08-28 21:43:17-08-28 21:43:20<font color=blue>Ordinary people lose, slowly recover losses.</font><br>317/378 693.08-696.35 <font color=red>n</font> 赌徒会想办法把损失变成下一次下注的理由。08-28 21:43:17-08-28 21:43:21<font color=blue>Gamblers will find ways to turn losses into reasons for their next bet.</font><br>318/378 697.24-698.38 <font color=red>bg</font> 这套逻辑进入感情，08-28 21:43:18-08-28 21:43:52<font color=blue>This set of logic enters into emotions.</font><br>319/378 698.69-701.45 <font color=red>n</font> 最后很可能会走向一个非常难看的结局。08-28 21:43:21-08-28 21:43:23<font color=blue>The ending is likely to be very disappointing.</font><br>320/378 701.83-702.25 <font color=red>n</font> 我赢不了，08-28 21:43:22-08-28 21:43:23<font color=blue>I can't win.</font><br>321/378 702.43-704.41 <font color=red>aaa</font> 至少可以让你也输钱追，08-28 21:43:22-08-28 21:43:26<font color=blue>At least it can help you to lose money while chasing,</font><br>322/378 704.53-704.83 <font color=red>hp</font> 不回来，08-28 21:43:23-08-28 21:43:26<font color=blue>Don't come back.</font><br>323/378 705.13-707.52 <font color=red>lx</font> 就争道德评价关系恢复不了，08-28 21:43:24-08-28 21:43:55<font color=blue>We can't restore the relationship of moral evaluation,</font><br>324/378 707.76-708.78 <font color=red>n</font> 就争公众支持。08-28 21:43:24-08-28 21:43:26<font color=blue>To win public support.</font><br>325/378 709.62-710.46 <font color=red>n</font> 公东知识还不够，08-28 21:43:25-08-28 21:43:27<font color=blue>The knowledge in public is not enough.</font><br>326/378 710.64-712.63 <font color=red>n</font> 就继续公开材料一、08-28 21:43:26-08-28 21:43:27<font color=blue>Continue with the following documents,</font><br>327/378 712.75-715.58 <font color=red>hp</font> 层层加码知导两个人曾经共同拥有的生活，08-28 21:43:27-08-28 21:43:32<font color=blue>Layer upon layer, the two people who once shared a life together are now separated.</font><br>328/378 716.0-717.08 <font color=red>aaa</font> 全部变成了武器。08-28 21:43:28-08-28 21:43:30<font color=blue>Everything has become a weapon.</font><br>329/378 718.14-718.74 <font color=red>n</font> 遇事俱焚，08-28 21:43:28-08-28 21:43:30<font color=blue>Prone to rash decisions,</font><br>330/378 719.09-720.68 <font color=red>n</font> 其实并没有想象中那么壮烈，08-28 21:43:29-08-28 21:43:32<font color=blue>Actually, it's not as glorious as you might think.</font><br>331/378 721.2-725.6 <font color=red>n</font> 很多时候他只是一个人说不出口那四个字到此为止，08-28 21:43:30-08-28 21:43:34<font color=blue>Many times, he would just say that he couldn't bring himself to say those four words.</font><br>332/378 727.22-729.08 <font color=red>aaa</font> 恋爱最好找一个输得起的人，08-28 21:43:31-08-28 21:43:37<font color=blue>It's best to find someone you can afford to lose in a relationship.</font><br>333/378 729.7-732.04 <font color=red>de</font> 如果一定要从这场争论里得到一点什么，08-28 21:43:32-08-28 21:44:15<font color=blue>If there's one thing to take away from this debate,</font><br>334/378 732.4-733.36 <font color=red>hp</font> 我反而不太关心。08-28 21:43:32-08-28 21:43:35<font color=blue>I don't really care.</font><br>335/378 733.48-733.66 <font color=red>n</font> 最后，08-28 21:43:33-08-28 21:43:34<font color=blue>Finally,</font><br>336/378 733.84-734.86 <font color=red>n</font> 热搜站在哪一边，08-28 21:43:35-08-28 21:43:37<font color=blue>Which side is the trending topic on,</font><br>337/378 735.74-736.7 <font color=red>n</font> 司法程序会继续，08-28 21:43:35-08-28 21:43:37<font color=blue>The legal proceedings will continue.</font><br>338/378 737.03-737.93 <font color=red>xss</font> 证据会慢慢浮现，08-28 21:43:36-08-28 21:43:57<font color=blue>Evidence will gradually emerge.</font><br>339/378 738.66-740.7 <font color=red>hp</font> 该承担的法律责任就按法律来办。08-28 21:43:36-08-28 21:43:40<font color=blue>The legal responsibility will be handled according to the law.</font><br>340/378 741.35-742.25 <font color=red>de</font> 对于普通人来说，08-28 21:43:37-08-28 21:43:50<font color=blue>For ordinary people,</font><br>341/378 742.62-744.42 <font color=red>n</font> 更值得带回自己生活的问题，08-28 21:43:38-08-28 21:43:39<font color=blue>More questions worth bringing back to your life,</font><br>342/378 744.48-747.39 <font color=red>aaa</font> 是你正在交往的这个人输得起吗？08-28 21:43:38-08-28 21:43:43<font color=blue>Can the person you are dating afford to lose?</font><br>343/378 747.98-749.0 <font color=red>n</font> 他做错事情之后，08-28 21:43:39-08-28 21:43:41<font color=blue>After he made a mistake,</font><br>344/378 749.3-752.28 <font color=red>n</font> 能不能承认投资失败之后能不能止损？08-28 21:43:40-08-28 21:43:43<font color=blue>Can you admit that after a failed investment, can you stop losing money?</font><br>345/378 752.98-753.94 <font color=red>hp</font> 你拒绝他的时候，08-28 21:43:41-08-28 21:43:43<font color=blue>When you reject him,</font><br>346/378 754.18-756.28 <font color=red>n</font> 他能不能接住争吵的时候，08-28 21:43:41-08-28 21:43:44<font color=blue>Can he catch up with the argument?</font><br>347/378 756.46-758.74 <font color=red>aaa</font> 他会不会故意攻击你最脆弱的地方？08-28 21:43:44-08-28 21:43:47<font color=blue>Could he be deliberately attacking your weakest points?</font><br>348/378 759.39-760.17 <font color=red>hp</font> 关系结束之后，08-28 21:43:44-08-28 21:43:47<font color=blue>After the relationship ends,</font><br>349/378 760.35-761.94 <font color=red>n</font> 他是否还愿意保护你，08-28 21:43:45-08-28 21:43:47<font color=blue>Will he still protect you?</font><br>350/378 762.12-763.74 <font color=red>n</font> 曾经交给他的那些秘密？08-28 21:43:46-08-28 21:43:48<font color=blue>The secrets that were once entrusted to him?</font><br>351/378 764.75-766.55 <font color=red>hp</font> 这些东西听起来一点都不浪漫，08-28 21:43:48-08-28 21:43:51<font color=blue>These things don't sound romantic at all.</font><br>352/378 767.27-767.75 <font color=red>aaa</font> 没有鲜花、08-28 21:43:49-08-28 21:43:51<font color=blue>No flowers,</font><br>353/378 768.29-768.53 <font color=red>n</font> 豪车、08-28 21:43:49-08-28 21:43:50<font color=blue>Luxury cars,</font><br>354/378 769.09-769.39 <font color=red>n</font> 钻戒，08-28 21:43:50-08-28 21:43:51<font color=blue>Engagement ring,</font><br>355/378 769.79-771.02 <font color=red>n</font> 也没有轰轰烈烈的承诺，08-28 21:43:51-08-28 21:43:51<font color=blue>No grand promises,</font><br>356/378 771.59-775.529 <font color=red>de</font> 但长期关系最终靠的恰恰是这些最不起眼的能力。08-28 21:43:51-08-28 21:44:36<font color=blue>But long-term relationships are ultimately based on these seemingly insignificant abilities.</font><br>357/378 776.52-777.9 <font color=red>n</font> 人生一定会出现坏派，08-28 21:43:52-08-28 21:43:53<font color=blue>Life will inevitably encounter bad people.</font><br>358/378 778.49-779.27 <font color=red>aaa</font> 事业可能失败，08-28 21:43:52-08-28 21:43:54<font color=blue>Career may fail,</font><br>359/378 779.78-780.56 <font color=red>hp</font> 投资可能亏损。08-28 21:43:53-08-28 21:43:55<font color=blue>Investment may be lost.</font><br>360/378 781.01-781.55 <font color=red>n</font> 父母会老，08-28 21:43:54-08-28 21:43:55<font color=blue>Parents will age.</font><br>361/378 781.79-782.45 <font color=red>bg</font> 身体会生病，08-28 21:43:54-08-28 21:44:22<font color=blue>The body can get sick,</font><br>362/378 782.91-783.87 <font color=red>n</font> 感情也会发生变化。08-28 21:43:55-08-28 21:43:56<font color=blue>Emotions can also change.</font><br>363/378 784.62-787.74 <font color=red>aaa</font> 你当然希望身边的人在赢的时候与你分享。08-28 21:43:56-08-28 21:44:01<font color=blue>Of course, you would want your friends to share in the victory with you.</font><br>364/378 788.2-788.89 <font color=red>n</font> 但更重要的是，08-28 21:48:58-08-28 21:48:58<font color=blue>More importantly,</font><br>365/378 789.27-790.83 <font color=red>n</font> 但坏牌真正出现的时候，08-28 21:43:57-08-28 21:43:58<font color=blue>But when the bad cards really appear,</font><br>366/378 791.22-792.27 <font color=red>lx</font> 他不会掀桌着。08-28 21:43:58-08-28 21:44:10<font color=blue>He won't overturn the table.</font><br>367/378 793.41-794.85 <font color=red>hp</font> 爱情允许失败人生，08-28 21:43:58-08-28 21:44:01<font color=blue>Love allows for a failed life.</font><br>368/378 794.97-795.81 <font color=red>n</font> 也允许看错。08-28 21:43:59-08-28 21:44:00<font color=blue>Also allow for mistakes.</font><br>369/378 795.93-796.17 <font color=red>xss</font> 一个人，08-28 21:44:00-08-28 21:44:14<font color=blue>A person,</font><br>370/378 796.57-797.35 <font color=red>n</font> 我们可以失去钱，08-28 21:44:00-08-28 21:44:01<font color=blue>We can lose money,</font><br>371/378 797.65-798.37 <font color=red>n</font> 失去一段关系，08-28 21:44:01-08-28 21:44:02<font color=blue>Ending a relationship,</font><br>372/378 798.69-800.64 <font color=red>aaa</font> 甚至失去曾经深信不疑的未来。08-28 21:44:02-08-28 21:44:06<font color=blue>Even losing the future that you once believed in.</font><br>373/378 801.5-803.93 <font color=red>hp</font> 但有些东西最好永远不要成为筹码，08-28 21:44:02-08-28 21:44:05<font color=blue>But some things are best left as leverage.</font><br>374/378 804.61-805.21 <font color=red>n</font> 对方的尊严、08-28 21:44:03-08-28 21:44:04<font color=blue>The dignity of others,</font><br>375/378 805.85-806.45 <font color=red>n</font> 彼此的秘密、08-28 21:44:04-08-28 21:44:05<font color=blue>Each other's secrets,</font><br>376/378 806.99-807.89 <font color=red>n</font> 退出关系的自由，08-28 21:44:05-08-28 21:44:08<font color=blue>Freedom to exit a relationship,</font><br>377/378 808.33-810.01 <font color=red>n</font> 以及一个成年人输了之后，08-28 21:44:05-08-28 21:44:07<font color=blue>And after an adult loses,</font><br>378/378 810.54-812.82 <font color=red>hp</font> 仍然能够自己走下独坐的体面。08-28 21:44:06-08-28 21:44:10<font color=blue>Still able to walk down alone, in a dignified manner.</font><br>