1/135 0.52-0.7 xss 最近,08-30 04:46:41-08-30 04:46:54Recently,
2/135 0.82-2.02 n 娱乐圈发生了两件事,08-30 04:56:46-08-30 04:56:47Two things happened in the entertainment industry.
3/135 2.2-3.82 aaa 一件事包某出轨另一件事,08-30 04:46:49-08-30 04:46:52One thing leads to another, and then there's an affair.
4/135 4.24-5.92 hp 闭圈孙哥起诉某田,08-30 04:46:49-08-30 04:46:55Sun Ge, a former member of the closed circle, sues someone named "Someone".
5/135 6.16-7.54 n 退还三千万元彩礼,08-30 04:46:50-08-30 04:46:52Refund three million yuan of dowry,
6/135 7.78-9.28 jd 还写了一篇万字长文。08-30 04:46:51-08-30 04:46:53I also wrote a long article of ten thousand words.
7/135 9.52-11.44 n 我的驴友景田前者,08-30 04:46:51-08-30 04:46:53My friend, Jing Tian, is ahead.
8/135 11.74-12.28 n 令人在意,08-30 04:46:52-08-30 04:46:54It's worth noting,
9/135 12.4-13.48 aaa 只有他老婆在意。08-30 04:46:53-08-30 04:46:55Only she cares.
10/135 13.84-17.26 jd 如果不是因为某田的瓜太大我都不想要聊这个话题,08-30 04:46:54-08-30 04:46:58If it weren't for the fact that a certain farmer's melons were too big, I wouldn't want to talk about this topic.
11/135 18.04-18.28 n 出轨、08-30 04:46:54-08-30 04:46:55Infidelity,
12/135 18.52-21.28 n 劈 c这些在现代社会已经不是什么新鲜事,08-30 04:46:55-08-30 04:46:57These things are no longer new in modern society.
13/135 21.7-22.72 xss 没有什么可聊的。08-30 04:46:56-08-30 04:47:22There's nothing to talk about.
14/135 22.9-24.88 aaa 至于孙哥的人品有多低劣,08-30 04:46:56-08-30 04:46:59Regarding how low Sun's character is,
15/135 25.06-27.04 hp 网上的信息已经非常全面呢,08-30 04:46:57-08-30 04:47:00The information on the internet is very comprehensive.
16/135 27.28-28.66 n 也没有啥好说的。08-30 04:46:58-08-30 04:46:59Nothing to say.
17/135 29.2-34.01 n 但是我今天想说说这两起事件的女主角貌似两种完全不同的类型。08-30 04:46:58-08-30 04:47:03However, today I want to talk about the two protagonists of these incidents. They seem like completely different types.
18/135 34.25-35.51 jd 但是他们有一个共同点,08-30 04:46:59-08-30 04:47:00But they all have one thing in common,
19/135 35.87-39.23 n 那就是作为一个人的主体性的丧失包。08-30 04:47:00-08-30 04:47:03That's the loss of subjectivity as a person.
20/135 39.47-41.93 aaa 某进的悲剧在于自我献祭式的忠诚,08-30 04:47:00-08-30 04:47:05The tragedy of someone named Ao lies in his self-sacrificing loyalty.
21/135 42.11-45.11 hp 他的所有价值感都来自于我是包某的妻子,08-30 04:47:01-08-30 04:47:05His entire sense of self-worth came from being married to Bao.
22/135 45.41-47.87 jd 他活着的目标就是维护这段婚姻,08-30 04:47:01-08-30 04:47:03His goal in life is to maintain this marriage.
23/135 48.35-49.61 n 所以他患得患失,08-30 04:47:03-08-30 04:47:05Therefore, he was indecisive.
24/135 49.85-50.45 n 草木皆冰,08-30 04:47:04-08-30 04:47:05The grass is frozen,
25/135 50.57-51.65 jd 他不是爱这个男人,08-30 04:47:05-08-30 04:47:06He doesn't love this man.
26/135 51.83-53.63 de 是爱被这个男人爱的状态。08-30 04:47:05-08-30 04:47:27The state of being loved by this man.
27/135 54.17-55.55 aaa 一旦这个状态被动摇,08-30 04:47:06-08-30 04:47:08Once this state is compromised,
28/135 55.73-57.41 hp 他的整个人生就坍塌了。08-30 04:47:06-08-30 04:47:09His entire life has collapsed.
29/135 58.07-58.97 n 出轨的是包某,08-30 04:47:07-08-30 04:47:09The one who cheated is Bao.
30/135 59.15-60.84 n 但拳王朝下的是包某巾,08-30 04:47:08-08-30 04:47:10But the dynasty of fists is under Bao.
31/135 61.68-63.3 jd 笑他的卑微笑他的恋爱,08-30 04:47:08-08-30 04:47:10Laugh at his shy smile, laugh at his love.
32/135 63.479-66.36 aaa 老笑他把二十几年的人生压在一个男人身上。08-30 04:47:09-08-30 04:47:14He always teased him for cramming his entire 20-year life into one man.
33/135 67.15-68.23 n 这个嘲笑虽然承认,08-30 04:47:10-08-30 04:47:11This admission, though sarcastic.
34/135 68.41-69.19 hp 但是也是事实。08-30 04:47:10-08-30 04:47:13But it is a fact.
35/135 69.37-71.47 n 一个人如果自己都不把自己当回事,08-30 04:47:11-08-30 04:47:13If a person doesn't value themselves,
36/135 71.65-73.15 jd 别人也不会把你当回事。08-30 04:47:12-08-30 04:47:13No one will ever take you seriously.
37/135 74.06-76.52 n 某田的困境在于寄生室的生存,08-30 04:47:12-08-30 04:47:15The difficulty of the field lies in the survival of the parasite.
38/135 77.2-78.4 de 他的资源曝光,08-30 04:47:13-08-30 04:47:28His resources are exposed.
39/135 78.64-80.44 n 存在感全部来自于衣服。08-30 04:47:14-08-30 04:47:15Existence is entirely derived from clothing.
40/135 80.56-81.52 jd 更强大的人说,08-30 04:47:14-08-30 04:47:16Stronger people say,
41/135 81.76-83.08 hp 大白话就是捞了一个,08-30 04:47:15-08-30 04:47:19In layman's terms, I managed to get one.
42/135 83.69-85.49 aaa 他有美貌也有点演技,08-30 04:47:16-08-30 04:47:18He has both beauty and some acting skills.
43/135 85.67-87.23 de 但是它形成了目径依赖,08-30 04:52:18-08-30 04:52:27However, it formed a direct dependency.
44/135 87.71-91.13 n 习惯了被给予习惯了用身体兑换生存资源。08-30 04:47:17-08-30 04:47:20Used to being given, used to exchanging for survival resources with the body.
45/135 91.65-93.39 n 他把美貌和青春资本化,08-30 04:47:17-08-30 04:47:20He capitalized on his beauty and youth.
46/135 93.569-95.55 jd 然后一次次的压住赌输了,08-30 04:47:18-08-30 04:47:20Then, he repeatedly suppressed the losses,
47/135 95.67-96.75 aaa 就说自己运气不好,08-30 04:47:19-08-30 04:47:21He said he was unlucky.
48/135 97.57-100.75 hp 但本质上他一直把自己放在被挑选的位置上,08-30 04:47:20-08-30 04:47:24But essentially, he always put himself in a position to be chosen.
49/135 100.93-103.09 jd 从未主动选择过自己的人生。08-30 04:47:20-08-30 04:47:22Never actively chose my own life.
50/135 104.13-104.97 n 什么是主体性?08-30 04:47:21-08-30 04:47:22What is agency?
51/135 105.21-105.69 n 举个例子,08-30 04:47:22-08-30 04:47:22For example,
52/135 105.81-106.89 aaa 你面前有一张桌子,08-30 04:47:22-08-30 04:47:25In front of you is a table,
53/135 107.07-107.91 jd 桌子上有一杯水,08-30 04:47:23-08-30 04:47:24There is a cup of water on the table.
54/135 108.43-110.05 n 你可以选择喝掉它倒掉,08-30 04:47:23-08-30 04:47:26You can choose to drink it or throw it away.
55/135 110.17-111.61 xss 它端起来泼向窗外,08-30 04:47:24-08-30 04:47:46It was thrown out,
56/135 111.85-113.41 n 或者就让它放在那里。08-30 04:47:25-08-30 04:47:26Or just leave it there.
57/135 113.53-115.81 hp 不管这些选择权在你的手里,08-30 04:47:25-08-30 04:47:28No matter what choices you have,
58/135 115.99-117.91 jd 这杯水的命运由你决定,08-30 04:47:26-08-30 04:47:29The fate of this glass of water is in your hands.
59/135 118.28-119.12 aaa 这叫主体性。08-30 04:47:27-08-30 04:47:28This is called subjectivity.
60/135 119.66-121.1 n 但如果你面前站着一个人,08-30 04:47:27-08-30 04:47:30But if there is a person standing in front of you,
61/135 121.22-123.08 n 他告诉你这杯水泥只能喝掉,08-30 04:47:28-08-30 04:47:31He told you that this glass of cement can only be drunk,
62/135 123.26-123.92 de 不能做别的。08-30 04:47:29-08-30 04:47:46Can't do anything else.
63/135 124.3-124.93 aaa 而你想了想,08-30 04:47:29-08-30 04:47:31And you thought about it,
64/135 125.05-125.53 hp 说好的,08-30 04:47:30-08-30 04:47:32Okay,
65/135 125.77-126.37 de 我听你的,08-30 04:47:31-08-30 04:47:43I understand.
66/135 126.72-127.32 jd 那这一刻,08-30 04:47:31-08-30 04:47:32At this moment,
67/135 127.44-129.78 n 你就把这杯水的处置权交出去了。08-30 04:47:32-08-30 04:47:34You have relinquished your right to this glass of water.
68/135 130.3-131.2 n 主体性丧失,08-30 04:47:32-08-30 04:47:34Loss of subjectivity,
69/135 131.44-133.06 aaa 不是说你不能听别人的建议,08-30 04:47:33-08-30 04:47:38It's not that you can't listen to other people's advice,
70/135 133.48-135.1 hp 也不是说你不能依赖别人,08-30 04:47:34-08-30 04:47:38It's not that you can't rely on others,
71/135 135.65-139.61 jd 而是说你人生重大事项的最终裁决权不在你的手里,08-30 04:47:34-08-30 04:47:38Instead, it means that the final decision-making power regarding major life events does not lie in your hands.
72/135 140.07-142.41 n 你人生的方向盘握在别人手里。08-30 04:47:35-08-30 04:47:38You have no control over your life's direction.
73/135 143.46-147.84 n 包某进口某田就代表了主体性上市的两种典型状态,08-30 04:47:36-08-30 04:47:39Package A represents two typical states of the subject's entry into the market,
74/135 148.52-150.02 aaa 一种是先机式的绑定。08-30 04:47:38-08-30 04:47:40One is a preemptive binding.
75/135 150.26-151.76 hp 一种是寄生式的衣附,08-30 04:47:39-08-30 04:47:42One is a parasitic, plant-attached organism.
76/135 152.23-155.53 jd 他们都没有把自己当成自己人生的第一责任人。08-30 04:47:39-08-30 04:47:42None of them considered themselves to be the first person responsible for their own lives.
77/135 156.25-158.11 n 为什么很多人会丧失主体性呢?08-30 04:47:40-08-30 04:47:43Why do so many people lose their sense of self?
78/135 158.48-159.5 aaa 不能简单的归因,08-30 04:47:41-08-30 04:47:43Cannot be simply attributed,
79/135 159.62-159.98 bg 不够强。08-30 04:47:42-08-30 04:48:02Not strong enough.
80/135 160.62-161.88 jd 主体性不是天生的,08-30 04:47:43-08-30 04:47:44Agency is not innate.
81/135 162.06-163.8 hp 是需要被允许长出来的。08-30 04:47:43-08-30 04:47:46It needs to be allowed.
82/135 164.73-167.73 aaa 他需要你从小被告知你属于你自己,08-30 04:47:44-08-30 04:47:48He needs you to be told from a young age that you belong to yourself.
83/135 168.09-170.07 n 需要你有机会犯错是错,08-30 04:47:44-08-30 04:47:46It is wrong to have the opportunity to make mistakes.
84/135 170.52-171.42 de 自己做决定,08-30 04:47:45-08-30 04:48:03Make your own decisions,
85/135 171.54-172.86 jd 并为后果买单。08-30 04:47:46-08-30 04:47:47Take responsibility for the consequences.
86/135 173.63-176.15 n 但很多人从小被教育的是相反的东西,08-30 04:47:46-08-30 04:47:49However, many people were educated with the opposite idea from a young age.
87/135 176.33-176.75 de 你要乖,08-30 04:47:47-08-30 04:48:04You should be good,
88/135 176.99-177.35 hp 要听话,08-30 04:47:48-08-30 04:47:49Obey,
89/135 177.53-178.37 xss 要讨人喜欢,08-30 04:47:48-08-30 04:48:10To be liked by others,
90/135 178.89-181.59 n 被爱被包装成了最高奖赏独立,08-30 04:47:49-08-30 04:47:51To be loved and packaged as the highest reward, independence.
91/135 181.83-183.63 jd 反而被暗示成为一种不幸。08-30 04:47:49-08-30 04:47:51Instead, it was implied to be a misfortune.
92/135 184.54-185.62 aaa 那什么是觉醒呢?08-30 04:47:50-08-30 04:47:52What is awakening?
93/135 185.8-187.78 n 很多人以为觉醒是离开渣男,08-30 04:47:51-08-30 04:47:53Many people think that awakening is leaving a bad boyfriend,
94/135 187.96-188.5 hp 搞事业,08-30 04:47:51-08-30 04:47:54To do business,
95/135 188.68-189.52 n 经济独立错,08-30 04:52:53-08-30 04:52:53Economic independence is wrong.
96/135 190.09-191.11 n 这些只是结果,08-30 04:47:53-08-30 04:47:54These are just the results.
97/135 191.29-191.95 jd 不是本质。08-30 04:47:53-08-30 04:47:54Not essential.
98/135 192.74-195.74 aaa 觉醒的本质是拿回你人生的最终裁决权。08-30 04:47:54-08-30 04:47:58The essence of awakening is to reclaim your ultimate control over your life.
99/135 196.89-197.85 n 包某进的决醒,08-30 04:47:55-08-30 04:47:56The awakening of Bao Mou.
100/135 198.03-198.57 hp 不是离婚,08-30 04:47:55-08-30 04:47:58It's not a divorce.
101/135 198.75-199.71 n 不是私包某,08-30 04:47:56-08-30 04:47:57Not a private package.
102/135 199.99-202.3 jd 而是有一天他能看着镜子里的自己说,08-30 04:47:57-08-30 04:47:58One day, he could look in the mirror and say,
103/135 202.54-202.84 n 离开他,08-30 04:47:57-08-30 04:47:58Leave him,
104/135 203.02-204.1 n 我依然是完整的。08-30 04:47:58-08-30 04:47:59I am still whole.
105/135 204.5-206.42 n 我活着不是为了被他爱我,08-30 04:47:59-08-30 04:48:01I don't live to be loved by him.
106/135 206.6-208.34 aaa 活着是因为我自己想活。08-30 04:47:59-08-30 04:48:02I live because I want to.
107/135 209.65-210.49 hp 某田的觉醒,08-30 04:48:00-08-30 04:48:02A farmer's awakening,
108/135 210.91-213.37 jd 不是下一次找一个更靠谱的大佬,08-30 04:48:01-08-30 04:48:02Not to find a more reliable boss next time,
109/135 213.81-215.34 n 而是他有一天能对自己说,08-30 04:48:01-08-30 04:48:04Instead, he could one day tell himself,
110/135 215.52-218.22 n 我不需要用谁来供养来证明我的价值。08-30 04:48:02-08-30 04:48:05I don't need anyone to support me in order to prove my worth.
111/135 218.66-219.44 aaa 我站在这里,08-30 04:48:02-08-30 04:48:04I am standing here,
112/135 219.56-220.639 bg 我一个人就够了。08-30 04:48:03-08-30 04:48:34I'm fine on my own.
113/135 221.44-223.6 hp 真正的觉醒是你不再把被爱、08-30 04:48:04-08-30 04:48:08True awakening is when you no longer identify with being loved.
114/135 223.84-224.32 jd 被选中、08-30 04:48:04-08-30 04:48:05Selected,
115/135 224.56-226.42 de 被供养当做你人生的目标。08-30 04:48:05-08-30 04:48:30Being supported is a goal in your life.
116/135 226.99-230.29 n 是你把自己从客体位置挪到主体的位置,08-30 04:48:06-08-30 04:48:08You are moving yourself from the object position to the subject position.
117/135 230.47-231.55 de 你不是谁的驴友,08-30 04:48:06-08-30 04:48:29You are not someone's donkey.
118/135 231.79-232.45 aaa 谁的妻子,08-30 04:48:07-08-30 04:48:08Whose wife,
119/135 232.69-233.59 n 谁的附属品,08-30 04:48:08-08-30 04:48:08Whose accessories?
120/135 233.94-235.8 jd 你是你人生唯一的作者。08-30 04:48:08-08-30 04:48:10You are the author of your own life.
121/135 236.56-237.76 n 最后呢我分享一下,08-30 04:48:09-08-30 04:48:10Finally, I'd like to share something.
122/135 237.88-239.62 hp 我告诫我干归女的五句话,08-30 04:48:09-08-30 04:48:13Five things I tell my female friends,
123/135 240.17-242.33 aaa 一百分之八十的人都是傻子。08-30 04:48:10-08-30 04:48:13Eighty percent of people are fools.
124/135 242.81-242.87 n 二、08-30 04:48:11-08-30 04:48:11II.
125/135 243.55-244.33 jd 对任何人、08-30 04:48:11-08-30 04:48:12To anyone,
126/135 244.63-245.59 n 任何是区魅,08-30 04:48:12-08-30 04:48:13Any is a charm,
127/135 245.83-246.85 xss 包括你的领导、08-30 04:48:13-08-30 04:48:29Including your leader,
128/135 247.15-247.39 n 老师、08-30 04:48:13-08-30 04:48:14Teacher,
129/135 247.75-247.93 jd 父母、08-30 04:48:14-08-30 04:48:15Parents,
130/135 248.17-248.59 hp 偶像等。08-30 04:48:15-08-30 04:48:17Idols, etc.
131/135 249.12-249.18 aaa 三、08-30 04:48:15-08-30 04:48:16Third,
132/135 249.6-250.74 n 永远不贪小便宜,08-30 04:48:16-08-30 04:48:18Never take advantage of small profits,
133/135 251.17-253.51 n 是把你手上的工作做到极致。08-30 04:48:17-08-30 04:48:18To bring your work to the highest level.
134/135 253.92-253.98 jd 五、08-30 04:48:17-08-30 04:48:185.
135/135 254.45-255.17 aaa 终身学习。08-30 04:53:19-08-30 04:53:20Lifelong learning.